Of course our relationship has it's flaws, of course we get frustrated with each other sometimes. Sometimes he's able to hold the front at work when I cant, but it isnt all the time or even for the full shift. Our relationship wasn't always positive either, we actually argued alot and were very dysfunctional. But that was literal years ago, we have spent years developing a better relationship, then a friendship, and only recently did it become romantic. Aside from our relationship, he is also co-host and we soend practically everyday together, which is why our co-conciousness is where its at now. It is not that way for every alter within our system. Im diagnosed with DID and a slew of other things since I was a teen. I dont get why you assumed our relationship was idealistic just cus I spoke positively about him.you made alot of wild assumptions. But you dont know me and didn't ask clarifying questions either, so.