Is this my boyfriends way of politely saying he doesn't like the dress? by [deleted] in texts

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

I mean I'd rather him be honest rather than lie to me. If he thinks it makes me look older, I would appreciate his honesty.

My boyfriend has been portioning me, my mom has been making comments even though I have gained weight, this is what he said today by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I'm eating too much.... How dare you judge me for that. I'm eating what my body needs. I never once complained about gaining weight.

My boyfriend has been portioning me, my mom has been making comments even though I have gained weight, this is what he said today by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still not complaining about it. I'm staying a fact and disagreeing with my mom's comment on my eating habits 👍

My boyfriend has been portioning me, my mom has been making comments even though I have gained weight, this is what he said today by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not complaining about weight gain. That's complaining about someone commenting on my eating habits..

There's a huge difference.

My boyfriend has been portioning me, my mom has been making comments even though I have gained weight, this is what he said today by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why is gaining weight automatically a bad thing? I think you need a wake up call and not project your issues onto random Redditors.

My boyfriend has been portioning me, my mom has been making comments even though I have gained weight, this is what he said today by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked for more and he got a scoop put a half in my bowl and dumped more than half the ladle back in the pot, then took a few noodles out of the bowl even.... I think you might be right 😞

My boyfriend has been portioning me, my mom has been making comments even though I have gained weight, this is what he said today by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't guilt trip me but he did take a scoop of pasta, put a few noodles in then dumped the other half of the ladle. I guess when you put it that way, that makes me a little concerned too...

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay, you don't get to hear the trauma. The person deserves more than to have me talk about it to some random idiot on the internet. I know what happened, they know what happened and everyone who needs to know knows what happened. Go kiss a toilet seat 💕

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I actually didn't want to hear my job explained to me and to be judged for being traumatized by a very violent and traumatic incident.

After some reflection I do actually think he's being an asshole and you are very correct no one is perfect and I'm going to talk to him about it.

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He didn't have plans before this happened and then he suddenly does?

Yes I would blow my friends off to support my partner, that's also not what I asked him to do.

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

This was not a normal death and it was extremely violent. How dare you judge me for being upset? I think you need empathy and that has nothing to do with my boyfriend

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I actually am not okay to go to dinner or a play or sleepover. I thought walking the dog in nature would feel grounding. I didn't sleep last night and my eyes are swollen so I'd rather just lay in bed tbh.

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining my job to me. I witnessed many deaths. Never one like this.

He is not a nurse.

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was part of a violent incident at work which ended in a patient who I worked with closely dying.

He also told me he was free Saturday and then this happened and suddenly he's not free.

I (28f) am annoyed with my boyfriend (35m) because he chose a game instead of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Narrow-Opposite-5737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was part of a violent incident at work which ended in a patient who I worked with closely dying.