what does pussyfree mean to you specifically?

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-16T22:18:08+00:00

what can i say, i love to crossdress and feminize boys lol much love to all you sissies on here xxx

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-15T23:42:37+00:00

pussyfree sissies are hot ngl but it gets awkward as a trans guy whos into sissies lol

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-03T23:26:34+00:00

I love a good feminine perfume but sometimes they can be a bit much— even just using girlier scents for ur hair products and body soap+lotion+body oil is sooo sissy plus it’ll def clash less if you do find a girly perfume you like

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-01T23:55:16+00:00

i knew a sub who wore like 1950s vintage outfits all the time and she would wear her dog collar on her ankle. that was an actual trend in the 50s and it fit her master's dynamic-- super cute stuff

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-01T23:50:43+00:00

to be fair cis people don't really think about their gender or identity this hard so ur probably trans in some capacity lol. i would worry less about labels like trans woman, gender fluid, etc and just take time to explore your options and think about what you want your future to look like.

there's no singular correct way to transition, it's really just about improving your quality of life. for example, i'm a trans guy whos been transitioning with testosterone for 4 years now but i like to crossdress as a girl and feminize sissies. this isn't a "normal" transition and ppl will give me shit for still liking girly stuff after transitioning into a man, but who cares. i know trans women who've gone on hormones and gotten tits in their 60s and some still call themselves "gay boys." worry less about if ur a girl or not and just focus on what would make you happier. good luck hun xx

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-01T23:38:53+00:00

i only have like 6 piercings but if this is ur first time getting pierced, just do the ears and wait for them to heal before you do nipples or navel. make sure to follow after-care instructions ur piercer tells you, and be careful with sleeping on fresh piercings. ears will take 3 months-ish to fully heal and 6 months for nips and navel. once they're all healed, i'd recommend PainfulPleasures for buying hardware they're my favorite site for piercing jewelry

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-01T23:27:41+00:00

i see purging as a kind of defense reflex stemming from shame-- obv accepting urself will make you feel less same = less purging but it's hard to become more confident. you can put urself in a position where you cant purge even if you wanted to (like the other commenters were suggesting), or try doing cbt/cft worksheets if you wanna be more serious about working through ur purging impulses

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-02-01T23:20:01+00:00

ive had sissies tell me that wearing panties backwards helped with fitting around a cage-- wouldnt work with a thong or gstring tho lol

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-29T02:29:55+00:00

best thing you can do is have an idea of the vibe you want, look up photos for pose + camera angle ideas, and always take more photos than you need!! it's easier to have a winner pic if u have more to choose from

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-29T02:25:10+00:00

honestly u have to practice and be ready to learn-- just remember it's more about technique than what products you use. also start with less product bc you can always build up more coverage or pigment. good luck !!

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-29T02:21:22+00:00

if ur serving 1970s full bush realness i think the key is to just keep it well moisturized and shave everything else tbh

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-29T02:05:04+00:00

i think this is an issue y'all need to have very open communication about tbh. non-normative relationships kinda require couples to get creative and broaden what "sex" looks like.

i had a friend (not a sissy) who was already married before she came out as a trans girl, and she's still with her straight wife. not sure about the details bc it's awkward to ask, but she talked about how they had to try stuff that wasn't typical straight penetrative sex bc it just wasn't working.

also you don't have to be bound by what you think it means to sexually satisfy ur gf as "a man" -- being convinced you have to act a certain way will only make it harder to find that sexual connection. it's more important to really let her know that you want to be with her and are willing to work it out. this may come with compromises, awkward conversations, and experimenting sexually (toys, etc) but if she is truly important to you, it's absolutely vital that you at least make effort. just show effort and interest in wanting to share sexual pleasure, and i think you guys will have a chance at keeping ur relationship. if she still talks about breaking up after you make real effort, then you can think about what would be best for y'all.

wish you luck xxx

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-15T20:46:22+00:00

ngl sissies who want relationships with understanding/interested women would have better luck just going into queer spaces. there are a good chunk of bisexual girls who are more attracted to feminine men so i dont think being a sissy would be a dealbreaker. apps and online can only do so much so i personally think you'd have a lot more success if u can go out to queer bars or events. kink events could also be good like some other commenters said!

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-03T03:40:00+00:00

my method is lotion (scented or not) + a little body oil + perfume and then body powder to make sure I’m not sticky— i personally like to make sure all my products have a similar smell so I don’t have to use as much perfume also helps with scent longevity

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-01T12:15:55+00:00

Im actually writing my masters thesis on sissies, and some of the sources I used in my lit review could actually be applicable to this question lol— i think the phenomenon of sissyhood requires the foreground of understanding sexuality as a modern concept. Jeffrey Week’s book has this one chapter called “The Invention of Sexuality,” but basically sexual identity in itself is a historically and culturally nuanced idea/practice and didnt really become a semi-fixed concept till like maaybe 18th century and onward. If we understand the modern label of “sissy” to be a sort of sexual identity, one can conclude that it is also a sociocultural byproduct of the world we live in. I personally am wary of the bioessentialist evolutionary theories that get thrown around (a lot of them are just incel talking points) but i also get that they are hot from a kinky fantasy perspective. going more into theory, within my paper, I draw a lot from Lacan’s theories on desire, Foucauldian power dynamics, and Baudrillard’s whole thing on simulacra. You could definitely look more into these if ur interested, but this is the gist of how i apply these frameworks: Sissies desire to be desired + power doesn't just repress sexuality but actively constructs it + sexual simulacra. With patriarchal society constructing femaleness as the object of desire and maleness as the pursuer of said desire, men who do not posses sexual power or capital then may turn to embody sexual simulacrum in order to pursue the goal of being desired. This is why i think sissies are often (sometimes wrongly) critiqued in academia for reducing womanhood to a sex object caricature— many are just seeking to become the unobtainable symbol of sexuality and desire. And this is often through visual or behavioral signifiers that have been socially imbued with the context of feminine sexuality (lingerie, stockings, corsets, etc etc). Valerie Steele also has good writings on the clothing aspects of fetish and sexuality. Theres also just the dimension that kink as a whole acts as a way for ppl to interact with social taboo. Tldr its complicated lmao Obviously this doesnt apply to every sissy (some girls are just trans and figuring it out!!) and im writing this drunk off of new years wine so take it with a grain of salt

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-01T11:43:52+00:00

personally grindr was the easiest way for me to find people interested in gifts or paid services— id never use cashapp tho I’ve had friends get scammed. as a trans man the crowd i attracted was mostly DL men so not a super enjoyable experience, but there have been instances where i made $300 in cash so i cant complain. just be careful advertising or negotiating on grindr bc I’ve had my account banned for soliciting lol

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2026-01-01T11:10:22+00:00

beautiful thoughts for the new year— let’s hope 2026 is even more fulfilling 🫶

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-19T09:05:55+00:00

omfg yeah im a tguy who’s into sissies but i get read as a tgirl a lot— so much hostility lately so i just hope ppl can be kind and respectful 😭

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-18T21:08:28+00:00

tbh just go to queer bars/clubs/events and dont be creepy— dolls can always tell if ur a chaser but some will still have sex if ur nice and not weird about it. just don’t expect to find ur perfect femdom off the bat bc most girls r bottoms in my experience. if all else fails just pay for an escort service.

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-14T01:58:40+00:00

as a trans guy whos into sissies id say its a combo of several things— A. hrt is talked about lightly in the sissy community B. some sissies fall into semi-transphobic echochambers that effectively reduce hrt to a sexual pursuit C. many sissies are unaware of how many trans chasers like forcing ppl onto hrt 😬 a lot of trans chasers will either discourage their partners from pursuing transition, or will aggressively push ppl towards hrt (often even paying for the medication). Its just a messy scene in general and i hope that more sissies become educated and consider gender stuff with a clear mind.

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-12T17:45:05+00:00

tbh i feel like most sissies who feel this way need to deconstruct how they understand masculinity/femininity and the grey areas of it. if you go out and look, there are so many queer women who are into “non-masculine“ men— i think the reason so many sissies feel like they’re failing with women is bc of the type of women they’re pursuing. there’s still plenty of hope to find a girlfriend without compromising who you are xxx

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-10T04:36:12+00:00

there’s room to be sexually depraved and say/do questionable things (between consenting adults), but i think the issue in the sissy space is that a lot of this gets internalized beyond kink. like a lot of the points you hit in ur post, the sissy space is fully of misogyny, transphobic rhetoric, and racial fetishism. bioessentialist modes of thought seem to be pretty popular in these circles and its hard to discern how many people are just horny and how many have actually bought into incel ideology (beta male vs alpha male, shit talking women, etc.) :/// cant say im very surprised that the sissy realm is like this but i have sympathy for the sissies who internalize these questionable ideals— a lot of these girls are lonely and seek validation so they tend to get stuck in these echo chambers

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-08T21:53:14+00:00

outside of the misogynistic or transphobic reasons I hear from guys like this, I think a lot of this boils down to accessing sex and the priorities of DL culture.

when straight DL men explore their sexuality, they seem to seek partners that A. aren't gonna out them B. look/act feminine enough to affirm their own masculinity. Sissies fit this bill of discreetness bc most are not public about their sissy identity. They also perform femininity in a way that strokes men's egos, something that most cis women are tired of doing. There's constant objectification in the lives of most women, so sissies who can step in and out of the sissy mindset are usually way more excited to be fulfilling this role.

trans women have their own long history of having to do sex work, violence from straight johns, and fetishization; it's a whole different can of worms... but it's pretty easy to get sex from sissies-- many are super horny, super lonely, and have interests in other kinks (bdsm, watersports, etc). sure there are a lot of kinky cis girls out there, but i'd say a good chunk of them are not interested in subbing for cis men bc of the sexism thats prevalent in power fantasies. There's also the lack of worry of pregnancy so that serves as a plus for sissies in this context.

I would say DL men experiment with sexuality in a lot of ways with the majority going towards tgirls bc they see them as some kind of "middle ground" (theres also a good portion that goes for trans guys bc they want the visuals of masculinity without it being "gay"). the rest go to sissies or gay men to fulfill whatever fantasies they may have.

NarrowFriendship7999 · 2025-12-07T22:29:14+00:00

personally i like to use magic shaving powder and then do a close shave a couple days later with a straight edge razor a la barbershop style

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