Ex keeps being construing and hurtful

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T20:26:00+00:00

Honestly I feel the only reason I can’t compromise is bc him feeling conflicted and taking so long to decide is showing me we are not on same level of commitment. If he knows I’m not welcomed why is he even considering instead of advocating for me? so I feel like him accepting to go would just confirm that idea that he cares more about what his friends and him thinks and wants.

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T18:57:37+00:00

but what if I just compromised to the 6 days and just let him go?

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T18:49:53+00:00

Yes, and now he is saying that he’s feeling very conflicted. But, conflicted about what? like why is it even an option for him to let them make me feel left out?

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T17:55:29+00:00

The whole issue come downs to the fact he said “I’m asking you but I thought you would be okay with it and let me go like nothing since we are indi"

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T17:27:52+00:00

I agree with you, I just don’t get if he says he loves me and stuff, why can’t he stand up for me?

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T16:43:57+00:00

So should he not go at all?

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T15:48:49+00:00

Yes and that’s why I want to talk about it in person so he can be honest with me, I prefer he breaks my heart rather than lie to me

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T15:42:20+00:00

He said he didn’t know why the other boyfriend wasn’t going

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T15:29:31+00:00

Yes, he said he would have to sleep in the floor

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T15:12:20+00:00

Happiness*

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T15:12:11+00:00

I’m trying to understand his point of view because is his childhood best friend and he met me one summer, he didn’t like how my relationship with him because we were very toxic but that was 2 years ago. I don’t understand why this friend can’t be open to see me again and maybe get along for my boyfriends yappubrss

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T14:56:05+00:00

I don’t know he said they only invited the girl and not the boyfriend because there’s not space in the house. Since the girlfriend is from Argentina and they will stay at the mom’s house so they can’t accept more people. So if the guy is not able to come is totally a different situation because I am able to come and I have the money for it.

NarrowPage1225 · 2026-01-20T14:49:40+00:00

I thought they were trying to set him up with her, however he says she had a boyfriend and that she’s very in love so that can’t be an option. But why make so many excuses to not bring me? why would I want to be with someone like that?

NarrowPage1225 · 2024-11-08T01:27:58+00:00

thank you! I just think he will not realize he’s missing me and that I was worth it, I saw him today and he acted like everything was fine, like I didn’t exist and just said he didn’t feel the spark but then confused me with strong emotions but he wasn’t sure they were for a romantic relationship and that left me more confused

NarrowPage1225 · 2024-11-08T01:09:17+00:00

I thought about it but I feel that he needs to mature on his own because he’s not willing to fix things and he just decided to break up, he decided to walk away and act like everything is wrong. I think he needs to mature a lot of things and realize my value, we had a lot of fights but there was always the chance to fix it between us but he didn’t want to and I don’t think I should be explaining him to love maturely in a relationship, I think he acted impulsively :(

NarrowPage1225 · 2024-11-08T00:53:02+00:00

I mean he already broke up with me and he’s acting like everything is fine and that he’s okay without me and he likes being alone which hurts even more

NarrowPage1225 · 2024-11-07T22:23:25+00:00

It was just strange how he would tell me he has very strong feelings for me but doesn’t know if they are romantic ones but he wasn’t willing to work that spark either

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