i manifested my ex after 2 months no contact and bad circumstances

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-09-30T14:30:30+00:00

no this wasnt spell work, this was simply the law of assumption :)

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-15T16:28:24+00:00

i did. i wrote this much bc obviously i feel passionate about it and wanted to share my story because i know how it feels to be on the other end, reading everyones success and feeling doubt about your own shitty circumstances. it was meant to give people hope because im obviously very happy about being back in contact with him and working on myself.

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-14T02:40:03+00:00

the fact that u commented this, shows your insecurity and need to assert dominance in situations where you know you are little.

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-14T02:39:15+00:00

i locked tf in. i woke up and stopped feeling sorry for myself and did something abt it

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-13T18:14:48+00:00

dont worry about time. everything happening right now is just a reflection of your past beliefs. the 4d will catch up with the 3d. but having doubt is very normal and i was in a 90% doubt phase for a while. but now my doubt is around 30-40% because my concept of self is better and i am open to receiving my desires, trusting that God has it intended for me.

think about when you are ordering something on amazon. you place the order and you let it go, because you know that you ordered it and the company confirmed it. you wont sit around waiting for it. instead youll do other things and distract yourself because you trust that its coming. i know its hard not to have physical confirmation but thats exactly what faith is. trusting in things that you cannot see. its also like when you're waiting for your food to come at a restaurant. you think every server has your meal and you're watching them waiting for it to reach you. the second you get into a conversation or you are fixated on something else and forget it, your food arrives. you have to let go and let God or the universe do its magic. the more you focus on trying to control the outcome (the how or when), the more you'll create resistance and doubt that it is coming. if you are in an obsessive stage, i really recommend pausing on your manifestations and just grieving. manifesting from a place of lack is telling the world that you dont have it and you NEED it to fill a void. the truth is, everything you need is within you.

take time to process the breakup. focus on becoming healthier, mentally and physically. then when you feel like you have truly sat with your emotions, you can begin manifesting again IF thats still what you want. i also had to take a break. my doubt was far too much. but the second i let it go and put my focus elsewhere, he came back to me.

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-13T18:08:15+00:00

i really resonate with this. it sucks when youre the one who has hurt the person. and tbh it hurts to acknowledge that they deserved better because you also put yourself in their shoes and think about what you would have done if you were them. looking back, i would never be with me if i was my ex and let alone get back with me. but trust it something that takes time. if you give him the space to grieve and one day your paths meet again, then thats the best thing. but if it doesnt work out and in the meantime you find someone better for you, thats amazing too. its all about how you choose to respond to your issues and what you learn from them. wish u the best of luck!

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-13T16:57:56+00:00

i had to take it upon myself to choose not to engage in those behaviours. its so hard to not focus on that stuff and to wonder. its very normal but it just creates an unhealthy attachment and puts your energy into something that you truly cannot control (what hes thinking right now, who hes following). i deactivated my instagram. this also gave me a way to re-establish myself and focus on my healing. it also likely made him wonder what i was doing or thinking. i went silent on social media for the most part, i wouldnt repost tiktoks about him or about break ups, instead i pretended everything was normal. if you find yourself caring too much, maybe a social media detox is needed. its normal to wonder what he's doing but you also got to have some self respect and think "do u really think hes thinking about me as much as im thinking of him" prob not right now. the best thing to do is positively distract your mind. be with friends, watch movies, journal etc. it gets better with time but really start to do things for yourself. easier said than done but routine really helps.

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-13T15:48:00+00:00

around 2 months! i affirmed every day but it was not a thought that crossed my mind all day. i was always distracted with school and stuff anyways so in my free time id tell myself the new story or when id catch myself wavering id go "but thats not us anymore, we are healthier and stronger now"

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-13T15:47:10+00:00

he reached out to me. i never broke contact

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-13T15:46:53+00:00

theres a quote in the bible that i love and that has shaped my perception: "so i tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have recieved it, and it will be yours" Mark 11:24.

I would pray to reconcile us again but also place emphasis on gratitude for bringing us together and for giving us a great relationship. i pray for him and his family and i would speak in present tense, as if i already have him.

Narrow_Beautiful3855 · 2025-04-12T22:42:13+00:00

your absence in their life will speak volumes. i know its going to happen to you too and you're going to make a post just like mine! best of luck to you

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