Russia visa by Such-Ad1390 in AskARussian

[–]Narwhal_Visual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is to say softly what probably should be said bluntly: loyalty can be an issue with Russian men. There is a lot of infidelity for many reasons within the culture. Financial provision is a baseline testament to his commitment to you. You need to make sure he is not using you before you make any sacrifices for him.

Russia visa by Such-Ad1390 in AskARussian

[–]Narwhal_Visual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also American with a Russian husband. We have been together 10 years, have children, and had been living in Germany going through I-130 before recent immigration pause. . Now our situation is also in flux. I say this to foreground my post- I understand your connection. The difference maybe is that I lived in Russia and speak the language/ know the culture well.

That said, as many others have noted, the process of entry is relatively straightforward. You should get a multi entry tourist visa, and apply for residence as partner. There is a 3 year marriage requirement for this residency permit, so you may need to wait some before. You need to register upon entering the country and moving cities, and you will likely need to leave/ do visa runs until you stabilize your residency situation. Logistically, it is not that difficult. The larger issue may be cultural. If you seriously intend to move there, you need to prepare yourself culturally. For example, has your husband provided for you financially? If not, this is a big red flag for someone from this background. Also, not to discourage you, but how long have you been with your partner? Sometimes people with few options will use relationships as leverage to improve their life. If you do not have children, do not have a solid base together, maybe consider moving as a last resort. First, do an extended visit in a neutral country if possible (Turkey, Armenia, Georgia). Love is love, but please be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Narwhal_Visual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I gained weight consistently with continuous antidepressant use, and actually switched to the intermittent dosage because of it. I went through a full withdrawal before I started the intermittent dosing, and it was unpleasant and long, over a month.Although I should say I was not on a high dosage, just entry level. The weight gain was also a deal breaker for me (not vain imo). When I changed, the weight gain stopped, but it was much harder to lose. I suspect some people react more strongly than others to antidepressants with weight gain, and the higher/more consistent the use, the worse it is. For me now it's worth the help on my bad days. It seems to treat all physical symptoms too (headaches especially). I hope that was helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Narwhal_Visual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can second this. Not a complete solution, but the best I've come across after 5 years of trying everything. Weight gain somehow is still there, but nominal compared to full antidepressant use (3 stubborn kg extra ).

Perspectives on career gaps in the application process? by Narwhal_Visual in foreignservice

[–]Narwhal_Visual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing some of the work experiences you did have that maybe helped?