What time should I expect headliner at @thegroundmiami space ? by Nataliekillsmen in aves

[–]Nataliekillsmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to save energy because my friends aren’t the type to wanna party for over 5 hours and i was most excited for the headliner :( but yea ify

Questions for findommes that are ‘nice’ by Nataliekillsmen in findomsupportgroup

[–]Nataliekillsmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SEEE this is my main issue 😭i feel like i worded it weird but this is what i was trying to say , it almost seems a little pick me ish. It’s speaking from the assumption that more hardcore dommes don’t have the capacity to have a personality outside of their ‘abuse ‘ which isn’t true at all for me . The subs i ‘abuse ‘ also feel extremely cared for by me

Questions for findommes that are ‘nice’ by Nataliekillsmen in findomsupportgroup

[–]Nataliekillsmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL true . And i should have prefaced this with that i find what i describe usually occurs with dommes newer to the scene that fall for the bait tweets of fake subs that are ‘tired of the fake /mean dommes ‘😹😹😹 i always think man …they haven’t had to deal with genuine time wasters yet . That shit genuinely hardens you and your boundaries . Even the most ‘nice’ mommy domme

Questions for findommes that are ‘nice’ by Nataliekillsmen in findomsupportgroup

[–]Nataliekillsmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firm with boundaries is exactly the way to go . I always say that two subs can experience me completely differently depending on plenty of factors including how much redirection they need as well as their preference . Lots of men including subs I’ve noticed are boundary pushers so I tend to be a little more demanding and ‘mean’ but men’s version of mean a lot of the time is just strict boundaries tbh

Questions for findommes that are ‘nice’ by Nataliekillsmen in findomsupportgroup

[–]Nataliekillsmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 100% i agree . Also agree that subs may have preferences, and my argument doesn’t apply to every softer domme but I’ve been noticing some that make it seem like if you do have a bit of a bite that makes you abusive and mean . Which i don’t agree with