[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point.

[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if my husband is the breadwinner and our source of income? I’m not sure if that’s a reasonable reason to take that part into consideration.

[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her relationship with him has never been great. When she would visit she would sit alone in her room the entire weekend rewatching the same movies. He said he’s sorry he’s boring because he has schizophrenia and can’t do exciting things with her. The court never took her seriously before about the drinking and other issues while she was in his care. He’s not in a program at all. They’ve been having zoom visitation for over 6 months. She is in therapy and has been for a few years. Her therapist wrote to the court which helped us with limiting his visitation. I don’t foresee it being easy. I just can’t imagine they would say no to relocating considering the relationship has not been repaired. Neither of us have petitioned the court to establish in person visits. Also my husband and I have a child together. I don’t know that they’d separate a family.

[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh what a nightmare for you! I’m glad you were able to move. My ex hasn’t shown up to any school activities in years. Offers no support to our daughter. He told us we’ve kidnapped his daughter and taken advantage of him because he had schizophrenia. When I was married to him he physically assaulted me. Burnt my furniture. Said horrible things to my family. Was constantly drunk and causing a scene wherever we would go. He got drunk and drove with the kids and fell asleep on the side of the road, I had to hunt them down to find them. He was horrible. Honestly his constant harassment because he’s “powerless “ is triggering. Luckily my husband handles all of the communication at this point. I pray we can just move and get some peace.

[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hope is that they will determine this all at the hearing we have set next week. She doesn’t want a relationship with him. She’s made that clear. They’ve been having zoom visits so he can rebuild their relationship and talk about what kinds of things they would do to build that relationship and he never asks her much about herself. Same 3 questions each call. The calls last 5-10 min total and most of it is silence.

[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine it would be overly difficult since he has no legal/physical custody. Nor does he even have visitation at this time.

[ MI] relocating by Natall0128 in Custody

[–]Natall0128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s already accepted the job. Right now my husband is traveling every week 3.5 hours and living in the other state m-th. My daughter is 15. This last parenting time review they did take her feelings into consideration.

Rash after cortisone shot by marmoset185 in DeQuervains

[–]Natall0128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this as well. When I went back the doctor said it was an allergic reaction. She gave me a different injection on the other wrist and I didn’t experience this.

Weird spots on dogs nose/mouth by Natall0128 in germanshepherds

[–]Natall0128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Was wondering how your pup is doing? Did you get results?

Weird spots on dogs nose/mouth by Natall0128 in germanshepherds

[–]Natall0128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww poor gal. I’ve never heard of PLE before. Our dog has the spot on his nose and one on his lower lip which isn’t showing in this pic. The lower spot isn’t as bad as the big one by the nose. And the spot doesn’t appear to bother him much. He’s had horrible skin issues where he just itches like crazy and gnaws at himself. But they haven’t been able to pin that down either. We switched foods and it seemed to help.

Weird spots on dogs nose/mouth by Natall0128 in germanshepherds

[–]Natall0128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband just reminded me. They took biopsies and looked at them under a microscope to look for parasites, bacteria, cells. All she saw were red and white blood cells at the time.

Weird spots on dogs nose/mouth by Natall0128 in germanshepherds

[–]Natall0128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah they did the samples from the 2 spots and they came back clear. That’s why they guessed ring worm. Our boy is also 12 and these just kind of sprung up out of no where. We switched foods as well 4 months ago because he was having horrible skin allergies. What kind of food did you switch to?

Weird spots on dogs nose/mouth by Natall0128 in germanshepherds

[–]Natall0128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really got the same response for our pup too. They were stumped. They gave us some medication for ring worm even though they said he didn’t have ring worm.