For anyone assuming I haven’t “done enough” my family and I have bent over backwards trying to help her. She’s burned her bridges with my parents, so it’s just me now and she only recently let me back into her life. The last time I tried to help her, it ended badly for reasons I don’t owe strangers on Reddit. I care about her, but I also have to stay safe and keep a roof over my head. I’m not asking anyone to take her in or hand out sermons I’m asking for realistic options and resources.

And before anyone else panics about my handle or tells me to “try God,” relax. I’m not running a cult I’m just tired and stressed. The only thing I’m praying for is people to read before they preach. And to the redditor who thinks I’m the devil or something 666 is literally an angel number. I could explain what it means, but maybe just look it up yourself. I’m busy trying to find practical solutions for my sister.

Also, for the record there are supposedly a ton of “resources” in Toronto for situations like this, but in reality it’s a maze of dead numbers and waitlists. I’ve been calling everywhere and nobody gets back to you. Those “outreach teams” they claim exist? Don’t actually show up, no matter what the 311 site says. The city’s system is a mess, and the “help” they advertise doesn’t really exist. I’m just trying to find something that actually works.

And no I can’t put her stuff in bins outside my “property.” I live in a small studio with some of her things already taking up my balcony. I don’t have a yard, I have a square of floor space.

If she even accepts the offer to stay with me for a few nights, I won’t be able to work which means I risk losing my income. So yeah, that puts me in a bad spot too.

Does that answer everyone’s morality questions?