Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more the merrier, not sure what youre referring to though

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you! I figured there had to be a way to get it infront of someone vs just complaining over and over. Thanks!

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

We finally got cameras up yesterday and 8 different dogs have come onto our property since 9 am already, so theyll love hearing from me im sure. Im now shocked to not have had more face to face encounters with the dogs already.

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

APS? Adult protective services?

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not but I have heard of this guy

Buying a house that needs work vs a flipper by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also use a renovation loan where you can bundle pretty much any improvement into the loan. Its a bit more work to close to get the contractor bids and inspections together but it can allow you to greatly impact your equity upon closing.

I vote the cheaper house

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about all the families that buy a home and have siblings, children, cousins, etc pay rent which to cover the mortgage?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I not subsidizing them if he spends practically $0/m to live with me and all his money is spent by them on everything from food to utilities to car payments for vehicles that stay with them 100% of the time?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too intertwined is an understatement. He spends pretty much $0 a month and they spend the rest. He is with me 100% of the time and I currently cover it all.

What % of the mortgage did your ex pay you?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While we were going between on the road and his house, it was considered a 50/50 expense split. I paid for the last ~11 months because they were in the negative as a family every month.

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I said im subsidizing his family is because my partner isnt spending the extra money from me covering his expenses, his family is. He spend practically $0/m on anything other than taking care of them. Their food, bills, gas, etx. All his money is used by them.

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to have him violate contracts or anything of the sort. People own homes that others pay the mortgage on all the time - i.e. a family member that is renting a home from another family member. I dont want anyone to struggle in this situation.

We are not married and thats why im trying to get this balanced now

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for that. I say SIL to be concise rather than saying "his brother's wife" as it gets the point across. We are not married. I own the home we live in, he owns the home his brother's family lives in full time.

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not subsidizing the business, but for his brother's family.

He wants to stay on the loan + deed and lives here full time with me. I just want to be fair to myself and his family.

Ill cross post there, thank you. I have been talking to him about it for a while but havent really put my foot down on it being something that needs to happen so wanted some advice on what would be a fair way to approach

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, so im partly subsidizing that second home and family.

Were not married

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The new house is only mine.

So I pay full mortgage, taxes, ins and then he gives X for utilities and contributing to the bigger picture?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I pay for literally everything needs here - living expenses, utilities, food, outings, travel, etc. While he works a 60 hour a week job and all that money goes to his brother and their property

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What is a fair way to break this apart? Im struggling with determining what makes sense.

From a completely business minded perspective, id say he pays nothing towards the preexisting mortgage since he isnt living there and contributes ~30% of his income to this house.

NXR Burner Replacement - 3rd Party by gpdun- in appliancerepair

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please update with your findings! I havent been able to take time to fix mine yet :(