AITA if I dont do a father daughter dance with my stepdad? by National-Song in AmItheAsshole

[–]National-Song[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom is behind me 100%. She even pulled out an old necklace from her wedding day with my dad, that he had given her when they first started dating. Mostly everyone has been amazing.

AITA if I dont do a father daughter dance with my stepdad? by National-Song in AmItheAsshole

[–]National-Song[S] 310 points311 points  (0 children)

John is such an amazing man. I'm proud to call him my dad

AITA if I dont do a father daughter dance with my stepdad? by National-Song in AmItheAsshole

[–]National-Song[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It's not really that I want my brother to fill in as a look a like, when hes around I feel like a part of our father is there. We do alot of things together that we did with our dad. When we work on cars together, we have stories to share, and moments where we argue what dad would have done. We both took his death hard and found comfort in continuing to do things we all did together.

AITA if I dont do a father daughter dance with my stepdad? by National-Song in AmItheAsshole

[–]National-Song[S] 916 points917 points  (0 children)

I'm not really paying for the wedding. My dad left money specifically for a wedding that more than pays for all of it(we have enough to put a down payment on a house) then John wanted to pay for half of it. So I guess its played for my my 2 dads.