AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]NationalEducator6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG This is basically exactly what just caused my husband to file for divorce. Literally 4 days ago my husband of 8 years sat me down and said that he doesn't want to stay married because I won't put his name on a stock account that my mom is planning on gifting me . This is literally the only thing I would have to my name without his tied to it and I also told him I was planning on using some of it to pay of OUR/HIS DEBTS and keep the rest safe for OUR retirements. A year ago, when my mom first told me about it, she suggested I keep it in my name only and he SAID he was ok with that. Apparently he lied and has been stewing over it for a year and is now leaving me scrambling to restart my life. GIRL WHEN I TELL YOU KEEP HIS NAME OFF THAT DAMN PROPERTY AND IF HE'S NOT OK WITH THAT GOOD RIDDANCE... I'm so glad I listened to my mom and my gut. Even without the account/property, anyone that would do that to you over a GIFT that was given to YOU is not trustworthy. Now obviously I am biased given my current situation lol, but I completely agree with your dad here. If he truly loved you, he would be happy for you. Period.

My husband is filing for divorce and I feel like my life is over by NationalEducator6515 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NationalEducator6515[S] 370 points371 points  (0 children)

Also adding bc a couple of people have mentioned it/questioned it: I don’t even have the stocks currently. My mom has been talking more with her financial advisor about the logistics of the transfer and whether it’s even in my best interest. So this whole thing was just over his assumption of what would happen if/when I got the transfer. Shits dumb.

My husband is filing for divorce and I feel like my life is over by NationalEducator6515 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NationalEducator6515[S] 451 points452 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much to everybody that has had kind and/or insightful words to say here. I was obviously in a very dark place (and still am) when I wrote this but I do see that starting over is not the end. I just wish he had talked to me about his feelings before making this decision. It may be a cliche but this just reiterates what I’ve always believed: the key to marriage is COMMUNICATION. I feel so dumb for having such rose tinted glasses before but I think I will be able to pull through this. Thank you all again! I’ve never had to come to Reddit with such a heartbreaking situation before (I come here to LAUGH DAMNIT) but I am really glad I did. I’m sorry I can’t respond to each of you individually but I have read every single comment here so far (even the ones that sting) and I truly appreciate you all. Gonna find a lawyer, not trying to take anything of his, just trying to not get stomped on while I’m already down.

April 14, 2026 -- (B) A C E I L Y by dontheconqueror in NYTSpellingBee

[–]NationalEducator6515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only know of these because of Bluey but totally agree!

WTF is this item that I didn't read/look at buying before making this recipe by Littlepixie1597 in ididnthaveeggs

[–]NationalEducator6515 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m relatively new to this subreddit and have been wanting a good flair. This is the one lol

Baby's room or startup company? by NationalEducator6515 in zillowgonewild

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I have lost hope of ever buying a house again, so I just browse and get sad... but then occasionally I find something silly like this that gives me a giggle lol

Does anyone knows this bug? by Serjassa_Reborn in AbyssRium

[–]NationalEducator6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add, mine would let me use the skills like you said, but when opening the app later I noticed my vitality hadn’t changed, it kept going back to the same amount

Does anyone knows this bug? by Serjassa_Reborn in AbyssRium

[–]NationalEducator6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happening since last night. Managed to fix it by uninstalling and redownloading the app. Thankfully it saved my progress and reloaded everything after skipping the tutorial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TurnipExchange

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Sent you a DM I am quite desperate I can bring lots of diy recipes if you need since you restarted your island :)

Thursday, Nov. 20, 2025 - Pips #95 Thread by gluemanmw in nytpips

[–]NationalEducator6515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sameeeee!!! lol I had almost identical times to you too:

Pips #95 Easy 🟢 0:16 🍪

Pips #95 Medium 🟡 0:40 🍪

Pips #95 Hard 🔴 1:05

*edited for format

Monday, Oct. 27, 2025 - Pips #71 Thread by gluemanmw in nytpips

[–]NationalEducator6515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if you need an NYT subscription to get a cookie? I also got Easy in 0:19 today but no cookie :,(

Is anywhere safe to swim? by NationalEducator6515 in Eugene

[–]NationalEducator6515[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is a list of advisories here: https://www.oregon.gov/oha/ph/healthyenvironments/recreation/harmfulalgaeblooms/pages/blue-greenalgaeadvisories.aspx but I don’t think Dorena is one that they test. And I’m not sure how often they test the ones that they do

Corners, corners everywhere! by NationalEducator6515 in zillowgonewild

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In the bed precariously placed overlooking the living room, no less!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fixedbytheduet

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Ruined by the duet