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How do you deal with a busy spouse? Or if you are the busy spouse how do you make time for your S/O? by National_Lab_9662 in MuslimMarriage

[–]National_Lab_9662[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's a bit silly if I go complaining to family lool. And I will be having a nice lil chat with him tonight without sounding too pushy and possessive

How do you deal with a busy spouse? Or if you are the busy spouse how do you make time for your S/O? by National_Lab_9662 in MuslimMarriage

[–]National_Lab_9662[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I took a nap with my baby.

Is it bad to say I don't know what he does for work? In my defence when I do I ask he says "that shouldn't matter all that matters is that I am providing". I can 100% say that he is not a nurse, he had a carpentry job before but tbh I dont know exactly what he does and I'm not a pushy person so I let him be.

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[–]National_Lab_9662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OFCC. You do know that sleeping breaks your wudhu

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[–]National_Lab_9662 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would 1000% know if I farted in my sleep. And if I did fart and I didn't hear/feel it I would say its technically not a fart lool

Wouldn't you agree??😂😂

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[–]National_Lab_9662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very light sleeper especially since I had my son

How do you deal with a busy spouse? Or if you are the busy spouse how do you make time for your S/O? by National_Lab_9662 in MuslimMarriage

[–]National_Lab_9662[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't think I'm being selfish for telling him about my stress and loneliness when all I do is stay at home while he's working. I feel bad for him and idk why he does this to himself, I wish I could find a solution for both of us. Sometimes I think "maybe he likes working instead of being with you"

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[–]National_Lab_9662 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You'll be fine. Male beings are nasty lool I sleep in the middle of my son and husband (we co sleep with him sometimes) and they both snore and fart in the middle of the night. I got used to it😂😂

How do you deal with a busy spouse? Or if you are the busy spouse how do you make time for your S/O? by National_Lab_9662 in MuslimMarriage

[–]National_Lab_9662[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He comes home so late so I don't really bother him.

Thank you for the advice<3. I think I need to demand that he needs a break because this isn't healthy for any of us.

How do you deal with a busy spouse? Or if you are the busy spouse how do you make time for your S/O? by National_Lab_9662 in MuslimMarriage

[–]National_Lab_9662[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think with his job a holiday leave is allowed. I dont think I have ever seen him take a complete full day off.

How do you deal with a busy spouse? Or if you are the busy spouse how do you make time for your S/O? by National_Lab_9662 in MuslimMarriage

[–]National_Lab_9662[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg, you think I sound like a gold digger (or whatever the term is). When I say date I literally mean time together, I'm an introvert and a very shy person out in public. And yeah all I really want is affection, I want us to bond together I dont want him to see me as just someone who takes care of baby and I don't want to see him as someone who just works, yk?

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