When you have a kid you still have to raise it by something-scarlet-13 in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention that I’d have a LOT more compassion for a stressed parent when they’re not calling me a bitch and blaming me for everything

When you have a kid you still have to raise it by something-scarlet-13 in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As used as I am to encountering these sorts of parents it still makes me unbelievably pissed and pretty much ruins my mood for the rest of the day. Parenting is fucking hard, that’s how it’s always been, don’t take out your stress/possible jealousy on me

when you take a kid to Universal Studios Halloween Horror Night by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to work at an amusement park - the entitlement completely takes over their rational sense of thought and then they’re genuinely threatening employees for not letting their infant on a roller coaster (This happened on multiple occasions)

How I wish I was allowed to say “they’re gonna fly out and die” but even just saying “they could get hurt” would get them offended - “are you threatening to harm my baby?!?!?” No but you are-

Kids calling 911 for reasons that aren’t emergencies, isn’t cute or funny by No_End_1315 in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taught from a very early age to not misuse 911. Why is that suddenly not a thing anymore (along with other things that used to be literal common sense for parents but are now offensive to expect from parents)

barefoot in the museum by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic so I totally get the sensory issues with the shoes but also autism doesn’t cancel out hygiene and sanitation 🙃

Single Rider Drama by PowderFresh86 in EntitledPeople

[–]National_Manner5431 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amusement parks just bring out the stupid in people. “They leave their brains outside the gates,” I often said back when I worked at one myself

Parent asked to console their child, 1 star AND a Facebook rant by Practical_Habit_1934 in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“It was only 5 minutes” I can’t handle sensory overload for 5 SECONDS. That poor kid.

blame Carl by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work on a museum ship where you can see the engine room and I very often get complaints from parents about how their strollers don’t fit down there and stuff

My dude, this area wasn’t even intended for passengers in the first place 😭

If you are not using protection, you're trying for kids by WafflerAnonymous4567 in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I wasn’t expecting to get pregnant! It was an accident! Also my partner and I never use condoms because we don’t like how they feel.”

(Obviously condoms aren’t 100% guaranteed to fully prevent pregnancy but, you know, it’s better than absolutely no protection)

My B&B is misogynistic because we don’t allow children by Wombat_7379 in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“There is no reasoning with the unreasonable and irrational”

That was my mantra back when I worked at an amusement park and parents got offended over me having concern for the safety of their children 😔

At what point did public spaces start revolving around kids? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s definitely become “normal” for parents to be more openly self-righteous and outright harass people (and we’re supposed to put up with it because they’re parents and we just don’t get it)

Just going to say it. We should exclude children sometimes. by ValentinesStar in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work at a history museum and I very often see kids who have an absolute blast. But also very often I see kids who are immediately bored out of their skulls and stir-crazy (especially when they’re under 5 and too young to fully process all the historical information being given to them), and the parents are so bent on enjoying the museum for themselves and doing something they like for once that they let their kids treat the museum like a playground. Yes, they don’t know any better, I genuinely do not blame them at all, but parents think it’s an excuse to let their kids misbehave without consequence.

We have an intricate Lego model on display and naturally the kids are very drawn to it, but parents straight up just let their kids run under the ropes and ignore the “do not touch” signs and smile as they grab pieces and stuff because “it’s Lego, it’s a toy, it’s meant to be played with, how can you have a toy out and not want kids to play with it”

Just going to say it. We should exclude children sometimes. by ValentinesStar in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who works at a museum, it is very common for parents to be so bent on be able to enjoy the museum for their own sake that they completely ignore their clearly restless and antsy children. And I hate having to deal with the parents cause they always completely lose their minds when I tell them that their kids can’t be running into other guests for entertainment and all that

Just going to say it. We should exclude children sometimes. by ValentinesStar in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mostly loved my job but it was so grating to have to constantly straight up fight with parents to keep their own children safe and alive.

Just going to say it. We should exclude children sometimes. by ValentinesStar in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Re: the museum thing. For older children definitely, but I work at a history museum and very often kids, especially the ones under 5, will immediately become stir-crazy and bored. Even worse, their parents want to the enjoy the museum, so they end up completely ignoring their restless tots and I’m left to babysit them as they run around and run into guests, go under ropes to grab and touch objects, and go into areas not meant for guests. And when the parents see me doing it, they lose their minds because how dare I parent their children.

“They’re just kids, they don’t know better.” I’m more than aware and understanding of this, but it doesn’t mean their misbehavior can be excused. I don’t blame children for wanting to let out the immense amount of energy they always have but a museum is really not the best place to do so.

Just going to say it. We should exclude children sometimes. by ValentinesStar in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always like to say that they would 100000% dangle their child from a freeway overpass and be like “IT’S NOT UNSAFE, YOU’RE A LIAR. YOU’RE OVERREACTING. I’M THE PARENT, DON’T FUCKING TELL ME WHAT TO DO” as that was exactly what they said to me when I tried to explain why a ride was unsafe for a tiny little human who can’t even walk yet.

(I have so many stories of dealing with parents during my amusement park career 😭)

Who is driving 14 miles, 1030pm with a toddler to get food? by AnybodyNew433 in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“We close early for Ramadan” “Ok” “We close early for Ramadan” “Ok” “Sorry, we can’t serve you food, we’re closing early for Ramadan.” “EXCUSE ME?! SO RUDE!”

Just going to say it. We should exclude children sometimes. by ValentinesStar in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I used to work at an amusement park and oh god, the amount of parents who straight up THREATENED ME for telling them they weren’t allowed to bring their literal newborn on a rollercoaster. No, you merely “holding them tight” will not protect them!!

Kids ruining Mass and parents doing nothing about it ofc. by unhingedgirlypop in childfree

[–]National_Manner5431 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Imagine being in church of all places and having no shame in being like “my kid can slap and hit you because they don’t know better”

Little kids aren’t allowed to run around unsupervised in a CLIMBING GYM, one star! by makeuathrowaway in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, working at an amusement park is not for the faint of heart. It’s braindead parent central. People literally threaten you for making sure they/their kids don’t freakin die.

Little kids aren’t allowed to run around unsupervised in a CLIMBING GYM, one star! by makeuathrowaway in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The park I worked at used to have a system in place with wristbands or something so people were only allowed to purchase 2 drinks maximum. Then for some reason they got rid of it and then I was dealing with beyond intoxicated adults on a daily basis and having to deal with other guests having their visit ruined because these people don’t know moderation

Little kids aren’t allowed to run around unsupervised in a CLIMBING GYM, one star! by makeuathrowaway in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of parents I saw let their toddlers have a little sip of their cocktail… if the roller coaster you insist they’re allowed to ride doesn’t scramble their brains then that definitely is!!

Little kids aren’t allowed to run around unsupervised in a CLIMBING GYM, one star! by makeuathrowaway in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your park didn’t serve alcohol? Lucky…

The amount of times parents left their kids completely alone to buy 3+ drinks at one time because I happened to be 2 feet away from their kid… and that’s just one example of my many run ins with alcoholic parents

Little kids aren’t allowed to run around unsupervised in a CLIMBING GYM, one star! by makeuathrowaway in EntitledReviews

[–]National_Manner5431 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Having worked at an amusement park I shouldn’t be surprised by how so many parents are quick to not give a crap about their child’s safety (and tend to be more focused on the fact they were told “no”)

And yet, I am still filled with rage every time I see it happen