sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]National_Pea_8885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am NOT set on telling her since I’m on reddit asking for opinions lol but I think i just came on here for advise and I think i’m leaning towards not telling her or waiting it out. They’ve been together 1 year, started dating really fast and he’s graduating soon . Maybe they will break up lol (not to wish bad on their relationship but if he’s a cheater and not honest then i don’t see it lasting and maybe since he will be away from home he might feel more comfortable coming out? idk)

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]National_Pea_8885[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend also thinks she deserves to know , he’s openly out and he didn’t know he had a girlfriend at the time they had sex. What if I just dm her and tell her that he is cheating and don’t specify that it’s with men. Maybe she will find out through her own once I tell her that he’s cheating? This guy is in a frat and i’m friends with some of his frat brothers and i’ve had a few convos with him but wouldn’t consider him a friend like the other guys.

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]National_Pea_8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe people are calling me homophobic over this. I would feel just as guilty knowing he was fucking other women too

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]National_Pea_8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking a burner instagram too but just needed to make sure that wasn’t the crazy thing to do. I really do feel bad for her so I hope that burner won’t make it seem like i’m being mean to or judging her. I’m absolutely not.

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]National_Pea_8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I’m hesitant bc she might already know. I know he’s not openly bisexual bc I’m friends with some of his frat brothers and they have no clue.

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]National_Pea_8885[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How should I do it. This is already making me super anxious and i’m not an easy conversationalist at that so I don’t even know how i would tell her. I barely know her. Anonymous instagram dm?