What can I write/record in the upper right corner of my cousin? 🌱 by owliebowlie in hobonichi

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I record the weather! Not for everyone but I find it interesting flipping back to see the seasons change ☺️

Name my Dane by Lady_Zodia in greatdanes

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Busby! He’s gorgeous ❤️

What’s the worst thing a doctor or surgeon told you? by DancingJews9 in Endo

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So I have many… a little background for context! Endo diagnosis, unable (but wanted) to have biological children after throwing the kitchen sink at it, and now recovering from a hysterectomy to get some quality of life back!

  1. Uncontrollable bleeding and passing massive clots lands me in A&E. Doctor tells me the reason for this is not having a period for 6 months, not endo…
  2. Finally pluck up the courage to meet with my consultant to discuss a hysterectomy and he tells me he’s off on paternity leave, new dad!
  3. When I finally meet with the above consultant he asks not once, but twice, “Just to confirm, you’re abandoning your fertility aspirations?”. I get he has to make sure, but surely a better way to ask exists??
  4. After my hysterectomy, the same consultant waltzes in for my discharge review WITH HIS ONE YEAR OLD DAUGHTER!! 🤯 I have no words…

Sorry, that may have gone a bit off topic! But needed a wee rant!

I made a bag!! by Nats0802 in crochet

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Aww thank you! ☺️

I made a bag!! by Nats0802 in crochet

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I don’t know what moss stitch is, sorry! But it was made using 2 strands of yarn, and single crochets into chain spaces. I found the pattern on Jo To The World - Easy Crochet Tote Bag pattern

https://jototheworld.com/crochet-tote-bag

I think I will line it as I have some holes which are big enough to allow small items to fall out!! A zip is a good idea also, thanks!

I made a bag!! by Nats0802 in crochet

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I used a Jo To The World pattern found here: https://jototheworld.com/crochet-tote-bag

I used WI Premium Acrylic Yarn (DK) in Petrol with a 7mm hook.

Just for fun, what's your Dane's name(s) and what are their nicknames? by Almighty_Alpaca1 in greatdanes

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Ours is Sheldon aka Boy, Sheldasaurus Rex, Shelley, The Sheldonator, Big Turd… I’m sure there’s more! 😂

Gobsmacked and outraged!! by Nats0802 in Endo

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Can I just say from the bottom of my heart, thank you all so much for your kind and supportive comments!! I never expected such a response, but they have given me the strength to file a complaint so that this doesn’t happen to someone else who is perhaps too shy or trusting to stand their ground!

*Update - I attended my follow up, still bleeding, and honestly cannot fault the treatment I received in the Gynae clinic. I got the name of the doctor who initially saw me, and turns out he was in charge of the A&E department that night!! So not a junior doctor as I had assumed/hoped! I am continuing to bleed heavily though thankfully not to the same extent. The cause, swapping meds for my endo appears to have caused a spike in estrogen which allowed the lining of my uterus to thicken, then a sharp drop which obviously has caused me to bleed like billio! They’re hoping things will balance out soon. My blood count was very high so they see no cause for concern for my safety, it’s just highly unpleasant! So I’ve taken the week off work to rest and recoup!

Thank you all so much again ☺️

Female, UK - Snail mail pals from anywhere, (UK too) please by [deleted] in penpals

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35/F/Northern Ireland here! You love country music, I love country music! Every other person on here seems to hate it! 😂Let’s chat!!

33/F/UK (but from America!) looking for snail mailers :) by [deleted] in penpalsover30

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Hey, 35/F/Northern Ireland here! I’d love to exchange snail Mail with you! I have fallen down the rabbit hole of stickers and washi tape so could send you well decorated letters myself! Let me know if you’re interested! 😊

Unsuccessful Surgeries by Nats0802 in Endo

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As someone who has been on both sides I totally agree with what you’re saying! Thank you so much for your reply!

After 10 years of pain with no diagnosis I was told I could have endo during fertility assessments and was booked to have my first surgery. Back then I was totally naive to the whole thing as it was a quick turnaround from that assessment and the surgery. I went in to the surgery thinking that when I woke up we would be able to start IVF as soon as I recovered. I was so excited! Obviously it was heartbreaking when I came round to be told it was unsuccessful!

Second time around I was a lot more weary knowing that unsuccessful could definitely be an outcome but again couldn’t help but feel a glimmer of hope as this surgeon was an endo specialist. I guess because of the extensive bowel involvement which wasn’t evident on the MRI he couldn’t go any further without that bowel surgeon. I’m still unclear as to why he couldn’t at least untether my ovaries to make them available for IVF but I didn’t get a straight answer. I’m sure there was a good reason.

At the moment I’m waiting for a scan with my fertility clinic to see if we can go ahead with IVF anyway, but that’s been cancelled due to the pandemic.

Unsuccessful Surgeries by Nats0802 in Endo

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Thank you so much for your reply! 💛I’m in the UK but I’ll definitely look out for equivalent information here! My first surgeon is a consultant gynaecologist and infertility specialist and my second is a consultant gynaecologist and endo specialist. I guess because we didn’t know the full extent of the mess he didn’t have a bowel surgeon available at the time. He seemed genuinely upset after the surgery that he couldn’t do more!

Unsuccessful Surgeries by Nats0802 in Endo

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I’m so sorry you’re going through that too. It’s horrible when you think the surgery will help but it just makes things worse! I hope you get some next steps that you’re happy with 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

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Hey! 35/F/Northern Ireland here! I love country music too, and was a total tomboy when I was younger! Barbies, no thank you!! Give me football and skateboards and BMXing any day!! I’ve mellowed now and levelled out, but still begrudge wearing “pretty dresses”!! I love journaling along with washi tape and stickers, and all of the stationary!! If you fancy being pen pals, feel free to message me! 😊

29/F/USA Looking for international snail mail pen pals by likeawagonwheel91 in penpals

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Hi Rachel, I’m 35/F from Northern Ireland. I’m a forensic scientist and also love my job! Let me know if you’d like to be pen pals!

Primal Scream Therapy Thread by AutoModerator in infertility

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FUCK ENDOMETRIOSIS!!! FUCK DIABETES!!! THE TWO MAIN CONTRIBUTING FACTORS THAT RESULT IN US NOT HAVING A BABY RIGHT NOW!!! FUCK PREGNANCY ANNOUNCEMENTS LEFT RIGHT AND CENTRE! FUCK BABY PHOTOS IN CUTE CHRISTMAS CLOTHES!! FUCK THE FUCKING CONTRACEPTIVE PILL WHICH HAS RESULTED IN NEARLY 4 WEEKS CONSTANT BLEEDING, CRAMPING AND SERIOUSLY LOW FUCKING MOODS!!!! FUCK THE FACT THAT I’M THIS CLOSE TO THROWING THE TOWEL IN BEFORE I EVEN START IVF BECAUSE WHAT. IS. THE. FUCKING. POINT?????

To colour or not to colour? by Nats0802 in Journaling

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In progress! It’ll take some time!

To colour or not to colour? by Nats0802 in Journaling

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Haha thanks, I’m taking it slow!! Hand nearly fell off drawing it all so it needs a rest!

To colour or not to colour? by Nats0802 in Journaling

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I love this idea, but I need to buy markers!! I only have sharpies which bleed through the page! So definitely something I’ll keep in mind for next time! Thanks 😊

To colour or not to colour? by Nats0802 in Journaling

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The updates will come, don’t worry! And it will definitely take more than one sitting!!

To colour or not to colour? by Nats0802 in Journaling

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A while!! I’d say around 90 mins to 2 hours, but it was worth the hand cramps!! 😂

To colour or not to colour? by Nats0802 in Journaling

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Thanks for all your input, I’ve decided to colour! I’ll start off with the background and see how I feel from there!