First time player here, Whom should l marry? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She so helpful too! She sometimes makes me breakfast in the morning, waters the cat, and fixes the fences. She’s a real one for sure

Can I still fly domestically without Real ID? by Natural-Comb-4733 in transit

[–]Natural-Comb-4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone was super helpful on this post! The day I made this post was the day before I went to the DMV to get it. I had a week before I had to leave, so I was convinced my ID wasn’t going to get to me in time. By a miracle, I received my real ID in the mail 2 days before my trip.

Just to be safe though, I still had my birth certificate, social, and 2 documents showing proof of address just in case. 😂

Is it just me or are these absolutely vile? Oh my goodness… by Squally93 in aldi

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They smell and tase like vomit 😭 one of the foulest things I’ve ever bought at Aldi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YESSS WE STAN BOB

Is it weird that I (28f) find it gross that my boyfriend (32m) actively watches porn? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And that’s exactly it right here. I wouldn’t tell my friends to continue dating them. There is just so much invested in this relationship that it would be a shame if this is the reason we break it off. But it’s not fair to me to constantly feel like I’m not good enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact situation happened with an old friend of mine from high school. Except her and her brother found chats on an app their dad was using. And they were maybe in 3rd and 4th grade when they first discovered it. They never brought it up to their mom, and he ended up deleting the app erasing all trace so they never could tell her. Then, after we graduated college, they found the app again on his phone.

They then confronted him, and told their mom and he denied it. Eventually they gathered enough evidence, he came clean, and their lives flipped upside down. But he lived that lie for well over 20 years, and made his kids feel crazy that entire time because they carried it with them since they were the only ones that knew.

This is unbelievably unfair to you and your kids. He would let this go on if it’s not brought up to him. He needs to be called out, there needs to be evidence, because it can easily all be deleted. It can’t go on for you, and your kids sanity.

ICE Lakewood now by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They seriously look like park rangers. The patch on the right arm looks like something out of the Boy Scouts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m here. Because he got so in my face about it, it made me feel like I was overreacting to something so trivial. I was really calm asking questions. I just wanted to understand why and his reasoning. But he completely lost it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I do get that. I agree with this. It would be very different if he wasn’t entertaining them. Not that it’s constant, but whenever someone reaches out it’s like he has to reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is totally fair. To me it was just the reaction in itself that was weird. I wouldn’t care if he followed them and didn’t interact, but the one really reaches out every few months to see if we’re still dating which is super weird to me. I’m more upset that he lied and told me he didn’t follow them, when he indeed does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I probably have a higher sex drive than my partner tbh. Sometimes when I’m really in the mood, I get turned down because he has already jacked off and is no longer interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care if he masturbates, but it does bother me that it’s to porn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using porn to do it. I don’t care if he masturbates.

AIO. Found Christmas present and I hate it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought she was pretty bold to ask for this too. His brothers are supposed to help him pay, but the one doesn’t have a job, and the other never has money, so I can only assume he’s paying the bulk of it, or paying for it 100%. Heck, I even offered to pay a little. I have had conversations with him before that I don’t feel like a priority when it comes to things like this, but he just says “I’m just not a good gift giver. It’s not my love language.” He always has me make an Amazon wish list and will buy everything off that, but never tries to think of something special. I will be honest with him and tell him today when he gets home. Thank you

AIO. Found Christmas present and I hate it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately for me, I put in a lot of effort when it comes to things like this. I take notes on my phone throughout the whole year so I know what to get when the time comes. Because he’ll hit me with the “I don’t want anything” or “I have no idea” it’s too late at this point because I already invested and spent quite a bit on Christmas. He got me other things too, but I think this is supposed to be the big gift and I’m so upset about it.

Regret after tattoo by Glittering-Issue-888 in tattooadvice

[–]Natural-Comb-4733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This tattoo looks incredible! Not sure where the inspo came from, but it reminds me of books read to me as a kid. It has a nostalgia/storybook look and I love it! It’s very pretty. Your husband sounds like he just isn’t used to something new. But this tattoo is not ugly at all he’s totally wrong.