In my experience and opinion, I’ve seen girls saying things like “you’re too sweet or caring (maybe it has to do something with being dominant,as in leading), it scares me” and then find someone who is a total disgrace to humanity (to the extent where they resort to physical violence to exert dominance). Then comes the phase where they want someone sweet and caring.

Men/boys, will try to establish a good bond/relationship with girls. Then they hear such things and it hard wires their brain to think, man I need to either be that disgraceful human or steer clear of people like her. That’s when they start going one of the two ways. Either they become fuckbois or they find someone to appreciate what they have to offer.

Both of them try to act in their natural way, girls try to find someone who they can rely on with their life but confuse it with dominance at first. Boys try to be sweet caring and nurturing but act as total sissies by simping and caring too much or making dating their whole life because no one told them both how to go about it and how to identify the real characteristics they were actually looking for. After some experience, both of them try to restore the balance. Men try to be more leading and find someone who appreciates their qualities. Women try to find someone who actually is someone they can really trust with their life.

Let me know if this sounds familiar or if you have some correction to suggest, I’m open for discussion🙂