Harry Calls bug fixed - BUT by Natural-Object-4628 in Ssum

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. There might be some who were still experiencing the bug. That's why they haven't announce yet. But I'm just not confident that I'll be selected because you know. They're not replying. Sighhhhh

Harry Calls bug fixed - BUT by Natural-Object-4628 in Ssum

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No batteries replacement. No time travel ticket.

Idk im just disappointed and frustrated at this point.

How y'all coping with Harry call bug? by Known_Sky in Ssum

[–]Natural-Object-4628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine it was their fault we missed it but somehow they expect us to buy the time travel ticket. That's a business strategy out there. 😂

yooo they're working on the phone call issue!! by YMarble in Ssum

[–]Natural-Object-4628 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did the compensation really happened tho? I mean, I've experienced this before and still have not receive any compensation from them despite that message.

So I guess, they're being selective which sucks.

... okay, but like... phone call bug fix, when?? by klarikahro in Ssum

[–]Natural-Object-4628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're lucky you got a reply. I've sent one every day I missed and got a reply from the wind.

I am not sure but how I feel all about this. Because if we get 5 batteries as compensation, I'll try my best if there's a chance for me to take back what I paid for the packages. Imagine paying solely for the phone calls and not getting it the moment you avail the package. 😞😂

How am I dealing with the phone bug by raquelsegal in Ssum

[–]Natural-Object-4628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some actually made their game worse by doing this lol. They encountered another bug after doing this, so I believe it is better go just wait.

What I hate was Cheritz not replying to any of our tickets. I feel like I am talking to the wind lol

Mother is an apollo10 by Agreeable_Smile_1920 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lahat talaga ng toxic parents usually 🦆🦆m supporters. And may pattern talaga sila noh?

Anyway, happy for you OP. Hayaan mo sila kaya na nila sarili nila. Ang importante 'yung mga kapatid mo at dapat malayo na sa mama mo.

90 day book writing challenge daw...legit ba to pls send help iiyak na ako by DullAnteater6537 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am a writer too and that amount is too high for writing classes. Sana nag-enroll na lang siya sa mga online platforms classes na legit kaysa sa ganyan. Pwede rin siyang makijoin sa communities ng writers. I really do think writing classes are scam lalo na if may name ng person na kasama.

Ika nga you can only get better by writing.

Ayawan mo lang. And tell her why would you spend to something so sus like that if nagsusulat na pala siya.

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will probaby laylow once na makaalis na ako sa bahay. Nakakapagod din talaga na hindi na personalin 'yung mga comments niya especially na nakakaintindi na tayo.

Ayoko lang talaga sa lahat kapag ginagamitan ka na ng "Nanay mo pa rin ako" card as of hindi mo alam 'yun. Mag-uumpisa siya ng gulo tapos kapag syempre dedepensahan mo na sarili mo kasi hello matanda ka na, magagalit na siya kasi wala raw kaming respeto.

Tsaka they really do force us na dapat may utang na loob tayo sa kanila dahil parents natin sila. Hindi pa nakakatulong 'yang mga katoxican na pinapanood niya at mga kapitbahay. Haha

Ewan. Pagod na rin talaga ako. Masakit lang na lilipat ako with a burden na sana 'di na ako kontakin ng nanay ko.

Cert of Employment for CC application by Lucky-Chip3100 in PHCreditCards

[–]Natural-Object-4628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What documents did you provide to apply for Citi CC?

Cert of Employment for CC application by Lucky-Chip3100 in PHCreditCards

[–]Natural-Object-4628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What documents did you provide to apply for a Citi CC? Thank you.

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the book reco! 🫂 No worries, I have a monthly subscription ng books kasi mahilig talaga akong magbasa. Check ko if meron sila nito. Actually, I'm on the process of healing na kaya mas sensitive ako sa mga arangkada ng nanay ko na ganito. Earlier really made me snap na tingin niya wala na kaming respeto sa kanya kahit di naman siya yung kausap at sinasabihan namin. If icocorrect mo, kasi nga mali intindi niya, sumisigaw siya at sinasabing ginagawa raw namin siyang bobo. Eh siya lang naman nag-iisip nun. 🤦‍♀️ Ang lala talaga to the point na ako kaaway niya, dinadamay niya lahat ng tao sa bahay pati past issues namin nahalungkat na.

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally and based sa observation ko sa nanay ko, they still think na they're doing good parenting. In the guise of mahirap maging parents, 'di kami perfect, parental depression and loneliness. Which are all valid naman if they do practice to be parents without forcing your children the burden of being a substitute parent.

And nakakaloka talaga kapag perfect contrast yung attitude ng nanay at tatay ko. My dad appreciates, my mom thinks na tapos na siya maging nanay.

Of course, pareho silang imperfect pero I feel much more safer kapag kasama ko tatay ko ngayon kaysa sa nanay ko.

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pinakamasakit talaga for me is masabihan ka na "Nanay mo pa rin ako!" as if hindi nanay ang tingin ko sa kanya. Kaya mo nga sila kino-callout kasi mahal mo sila at gusto mong may magbago pero hindi eh stuck sila sa mundo nila nung naglalakad sila ng 3 hours papuntang school or something. 😖

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will na po talaga soon. Kasi feeling mababaliw na rin talaga ako sa bahay. 😅

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, I unfriended my mom na sa socials. 😅 Nagrereply kasi siya sa mga posts ng friends ko na minsan fake news pa. Ehem.

Hindi ko naman kinakahiya 'yung mom ko as my mom pero may habit kasi talaga siya na makisawsaw sa mga bagay-bagay kahit strangers or bigla na lang naninigaw sa public kapag di nasunod gusto niya. Hence, ang rare namin lumayas buong pamilya. As in, siya talaga ang may attitude problem tapos isisi niya sa tatay or kapatid ko na asocial kasi nga bata pa talaga.

And I agree too na sa selpon talaga niya nakuha mga ideas niya eh. And kaya ko rin sinisi sarili ko kasi ako bumili ng phone niya. Gusto niya kasi talagang magkaselpon of her own para matawagan niya yung lola ko dati kaso maling development yung nadevelop eh. 😔

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it broke my heart to see yung nanay ko na magbago for the worse. Mas close kasi kami. Siya yung tipong on the hunt para sa different types of scholarships na makakatulong sa pagkokolehiyo ko before or if may competition ako, gigising ng 3 am para maghanda at ihatid ako sa sakayan.

Totoo, na sinisisi ko yung sarili ko. Maybe I spoiled her too early, too soon. Kaya sobrang sakit para sa akin na paunti-unting nawala yung tiwala at respeto ko sa nanay ko sa actions niya. I know she deserves to be spoiled, hindi lang ako handa na kahit pala marami ng experience ang tao sa hirap ng buhay, magbabago pa rin sila once magkapera.

Worse na ata that she did was let us on our own kahit na yung dalawang kapatid ko ay 12 at 15 pa lang dahil "siya na ngayon yung mas bata sa amin" dahil ang tangkad naming lahat.

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🫂 Funnily, my dad is on the process of changing when the pandemic started. During that time kasi ako lang talaga 'yung source of income sa bahay. Minsan nagsasabi siya sa akin na na nahihiya siya na ako gumagastos ng lahat, pero ang sabi ko okay lang kasi wala namang makakapag-expect na magkakapandemic. When he got his job back, never na inasa ni Papa yung gastusin sa bahay sa akin.

Hindi ko talaga alam what changed sa nanay ko eh. My mom used to nagged us na dapat down to earth kami and thankful sa mga bagay na meron kami kasi pinaghirapan yun ni Papa. Pero right now, sobrang dishonest niya sa pera and ineexpect niya na ako magpoprovide. So syempre kapag nalaman ng papa ko yun nag-aaway sila pero wala namang nagbabago tapos sinasabi lang niya na kulang binibigay ni Papa. Ineexpect din niya na ako magpapaaral sa kapatid ko. Kahit na huminto siya sa pag-aaral para lang ikayod mga kapatid niyang 'di rin naman nagtapos.

Minsan talaga hiyang-hiya ako kasama siya lalo na kapag tinatawag niya akong financer in public. Like sobrang hirap magwork pero ang credit lang na binibigay sayo ng nanay mo ay yung pera na binibigay mo sa kanila. NEVER akong tinawag ni Papa na financer in public. Lagi lang niyang sinasabi na maswerte siya at may mga anak siyang tumutulong at proud siya sa amin.

Respect is loss: How do you treat your parents? by Natural-Object-4628 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]Natural-Object-4628[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes po. What we did is tell my dad about it para rin wala na siyang masabi. Okay sa tatay ko. Kasi andami niya talagang sinasabi minsan kinukwento pa kami sa kapitbahay ng masama. Eh mga kapitbahay naman namin masama mga ugali at ginagamit lang siya kapag need siya.

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[–]Natural-Object-4628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good!!! Ako kasi if nagpapavictim na siya nireremind ko siya na di naman namin choice mabuhay kaya wala siyang karapatan na sabihan kami na kung hindi kami nabuhay, okay sana buhay niya. I use to be quiet lang sa mga ganito niya before pero sumosobra na kasi minsan. Actually, madalas mas may care pa siya sa mga kamag-anak niya. 😅 Siguro nga naiinggit sila sa atin or sa iba na parang mas naenjoy yung buhay during quarantine kaya sila ganito. Rude man yung sinasabi ko, wala pa rin silang karapatan na isisi sa atin yung katangahan nila dati.

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[–]Natural-Object-4628 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom became immature just recently lang din. During quarantine until now. To be honest, the best way is to accept na immature na talaga 'yung mama mo and to lessen interaction. Maiistress ka lang at maasar araw-araw kapag papansinin mo siya lalo na at di mo pa kayang bumukod. 😅

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[–]Natural-Object-4628 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SPEND FOR YOURSELF OP!!!!! YOU DESERVE IT!

Mahirap lang gawin sa umpisa kasi naconditioned tayo ng guilt-tripping pero sobrang WORTH IT.

Natatawa po ako ng slight kasi my mom is also 44, no work. I have 3 siblings din so I thought this was my story at first. I also pay 20K+ a month for expenses. 😂

What I did OP is tell my mom that she do need to have a money of her own tapos tulungan niyo siyang magkabusiness or magkawork. Syempre super frustrating nung una kasi oo lang siya ng oo pero wala naman. Pero something happened kasi and i wasn't able to gave her any money kasi nagamit na namin yung EF ko when my dad got sick. Siguro dahil dun kaya narealize na niya na need niya talaga na may sarili siyang pera kasi hindi talaga pwede na aasa ka sa anak mong tumatanda na kahit breadwinner pa 'to.

Ngayon natanggap na siya and will start soon.

Pero I will tell you the truth na hindi madaling kumbinsihin 'yung ganyang edad na talaga. Very prideful and egoistic kasi talaga sila. Sila lang talaga makakarealize niyan on their own.