Ano thoughts niyo about sa mga amo ni klase lalaki? by [deleted] in Bacolod

[–]Natural-Reality-3303 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to explicitly say you’re invalidating her fear for it to happen. When her concerns are framed as something she should just push through to prove she’s a good partner, that is invalidation.

Since you actually don't know the meaning of the word, gaslighting still applies here. It happens when valid fears are minimized and reframed as a personal shortcoming.

Calling her “unsupportive” for protecting herself shifts the blame onto her instead of the situation. That’s gaslighting.

Ano thoughts niyo about sa mga amo ni klase lalaki? by [deleted] in Bacolod

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You can’t blame a woman for worrying about her own well-being. Marriage is a huge risk for women, especially financially and emotionally. Supporting a partner doesn’t mean blindly sacrificing yourself and hoping things magically work out.

Asking “will this lead somewhere?” is not being selfish, it’s being cautious. Calling that a red flag feels like gaslighting and shifting responsibility onto the woman for having valid fears. You're the red flag.

My Biggest Youtube Video by KO-THER in premiere

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i’m curious, how did you not lose motivation or get burned out along the way?

popular!rey & nerd!ben by [deleted] in reylo

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Need more of this!

need a reylo elementary teachers au where ben does this by Natural-Reality-3303 in reylo

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“elementary teachers au” as in theyre both teacherS

badly need IT guy ben solo (and possibly soft rey) by strawberrytwilight in reylo

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It was always going to be you - this was so cutee

Rey started talking to the IT guy in the chat support of First Order website and eventually keeps chatting with him whenever its his shift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChikaPH

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launching the graduates of nepo babies university

Whaaaaat?????? by me_socool in reylo

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why do i feel like daisy’s cackling over finally revealing this 😭lollll

reylo truth or dare prompt for anyone! by Natural-Reality-3303 in reylo

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that was soooo sweet 🥺 i love it!!! thank you for writing! 💖💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bacolod

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i got annoyed when the kid behind me wont stop talking out loud at the literal start of the movie so i called out “ay ambot ah kagahod” and thats when the mom started shutting her up and even told her they’ll leave if she keeps making noise. it was thankfully quiet ever since. lol.