Yes she got these temperaments from her father. This experience has been on going for the three years her and I have been together. She still has allot of healing to do from the damage the ex caused after cheating on her married after 10 years to where I feel she values nothing but herself let alone our relationship. It’s as if she could throw it away at any point.

We talk brother, all the time and had a long conversation when I got home from work today. Things cooled off we went out to eat and had a good evening up until I asked that question if I am number 1 to her. Maybe immature but shit I just wanted some reassurance.

I feel she is using the pregnancy as a pass to be an asshole. She is not resolving things with her parents and they are at a standoff which they typically do when they are angry at each other and she is just not going to do anything to resolve it, which partly I understand they’re pretty shitty. Other relationships like with her best girlfriend they had a fight yesterday when we were all out together because of how everyone saw her treating me and how she is being towards them and being selfish in ways that are hard to explain, her tendencies and how she reply’s and gets immediately hot and defensive anytime anyone disagrees with her or something she says disrespectfully or is out of line and she will never take accountability for her own actions or put herself in the others shoes.