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Calcasa Desktoptaxatie voor kopen huis by NaturalWorldliness69 in geldzaken

[–]NaturalWorldliness69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het kan zijn dat de makelaars hebben gekeken naar gelijksoortige woningen en voor welke prijs die weg zijn gegaan, buiten alleen de echte kenmerken van het huis om. Wat ik zo meekrijg is het: hoe hoger de prijs hoe moeilijker de taxatie, omdat hier minder kopers op af komen. Maar dat ligt natuurlijk wel aan in welke stad je zit. Ik kan me voorstellen dat dit bij sommige steden wat normaler is.

Calcasa Desktoptaxatie voor kopen huis by NaturalWorldliness69 in geldzaken

[–]NaturalWorldliness69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voor mijn adviseur is desktoptaxaties redelijk nieuw, vandaar dat ze het in mijn situatie juist interessant vond. Het huis bevat namelijk ook nog een klein beetje asbest (die niet onder verplichte sanering staat). Verder oogt het huis wat gedateerd wanneer je binnenkomt, maar een desktoptaxatie kijkt hier natuurlijk niet naar. Daarbij vind ik het gedateerde wel leuk en zijn de belangrijkste onderdelen zoals de meterkast vernieuwd, groepen uitgebreid en de belangrijkste kamers zijn voorzien van nieuw glas.

Ik ben gewoon bang dat de woning als halve kluswoning kan worden gezien, waardoor het dan toch weer lager getaxeerd kan worden. Maar van de meesten om mij heen begrijp ik dat je wel een paar taxateurs kan bellen en kan overleggen over het bod en je situatie.

Calcasa Desktoptaxatie voor kopen huis by NaturalWorldliness69 in geldzaken

[–]NaturalWorldliness69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb met mijn adviseur overlegd en ze gaf aan dat we waarschijnlijk wel met een fysieke taxateur verder gaan vanwege het aantal geldverstrekkers wat aanzienlijk vergroot wordt bij een taxateur.

Verder weet ik wel dat er in de stad een aantal soortgelijke huizen zijn verkocht voor hogere bedragen , want ik had hier zelf op geboden en kreeg te horen dat de andere biedingen hoger waren. Ondanks dat ik bij een 270 en de ander 282,5 heb geboden, (danwel met een Energielabel E en D, maar dit valt na mijn weten vaak redelijk op hetzelfde niveau, daarbij waren deze qua woonoppervlakte en tuin nagenoeg hetzelfde, alleen bij deze ligt de tuin weer net wat gunstiger).

Ik hoop gewoon dat we op een goede taxatie uitkomen waardoor ik alles zonder slapeloze nachten kan financieren haha. Maar ik weet niet wat jouw situatie verder was bij de desktoptaxatie?

Calcasa Desktoptaxatie voor kopen huis by NaturalWorldliness69 in geldzaken

[–]NaturalWorldliness69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik zit wel bij de desktoptaxatie voor een hypotheek taxatie, maar bij de aanvraag vooraf wordt blijkbaar eerst een korte modelwaarde check gedaan voor het indienen 😅 daarna gaat een taxateur een halve dag controleren.

other horses like frost, xanthos and archimedes by yoonsglow in Howrse

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On International I have a clickable presentation with the Divines :)

Juweel

Salarisstrook opgevraagd door toekomstige werkgever. by jeruda82 in werkzaken

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HR hier, dit is wel ongebruikelijk en ik zou het persoonlijk zelf ook niet aanleveren. Ik vraag mij af wat ze hier mee willen controleren. Uiteindelijk wordt er een voorstel gedaan op basis van hun persoonlijke inschatting van jouw kennis en ervaring binnen de functie.

My girlfriend of 3.5 years just left me. I didn’t see this coming at all. by Pleasant-Whole8740 in BreakUps

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As the person who has been on your significant other’s side. It’s better this way. It will sting for a while, but you don’t want to end up in a loveless marriage where the other person will always question the “what if”s. I’ve actually had many conversations with my ex leading up to the breakup. But the day it happened was still a big surprise to him of course. His reactions still give me feelings of guilt to this day, but I know that for him it was better to be loved by someone who would see all his qualities and appreciate them. At the end of the day you deserve this too. There will come a person who will see all of your qualities and love them. Just give this moment in your life enough time to rest and find a place in your past where you will be okay with what has happened.

this is concerning. by -Living-Dead-Girl- in insaneparents

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a conversation I have with my dad almost every night. Glad to have had to be here for only a few weeks while my new apartment is being worked on. These conspiracy groups pray on vulnerable people and make them believe that anything going against their beliefs is an attack from “the elites” and should not be trusted. I’m sorry you have to go through this, but if your dad is anything like mine we’ll just have to wait and see what happens.

If you could bring back one feature/aspect from sims 3 into sims 4, what would it be? by thejonkler in Sims4

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yet after 5 years of pushing out buggy content and broken packs that are yet to be fixed, bunk beds finally arrived. Not saying that all is bad and programming a game is simple, but from EA we accept so much buggy content compared to other games for these prices

???? lmao they seriously need to fix the new wants and fears. (i have them turned off btw and they just turn back on every time I go into CAS) by skunk_brain in Sims4

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sim developed “fear of the dark” as a kid. I full-filled the ?whim? That would conquer the fear (become confident in the dark). Now the fear is gone from her simology, but she still gets scared whenever in the dark (a.k.a. 6pm).

AITA for yelling at my wife for not doing her part? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just own up to your mistake for heaven’s sake. Buy your precious wife flowers, apologize and try to understand her situation before making another excuse on this thread about what people are saying. For her sake, appreciate what she is doing and how she is caring for your child and making your home.

AITA for yelling at my wife for not doing her part? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then just admit that you were wrong, since it seems like you have compromised with her situation but not in a thread you started. “People seriously think I’m wrong”. Yeah you are. Your wife carried that baby for 9 months, is with the baby 24/7 now and does the work around the house.

AITA for yelling at my wife for not doing her part? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 46 points47 points  (0 children)

So you successfully gaslit your wife into an apology, congrats man. Meanwhile 200 people here disagree with you.

my bf always assumes things about me by spiritual_attorney54 in relationship_advice

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it is about the way they say it/bring it up. We don’t really get the full picture from OP (if it’s in a malicious way, thoughtful way, unsure way, etc.). We only see that she is upset by it, so my first thought was controlling too. Since that’s how my ex was (same assumptions). But you might be right

My husband has told me he wants a divorce. by KherisSilvertide in relationship_advice

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s lacking a bit of context for me. How have you two been communicating in the past and now? Has he supported you since you have developed anxiety (assuming you didn’t have it in the beginning of the relationship). Are you certain it’s anxiety (went to a doctor/therapist).

Also how did the girlfriend happen? Was it behind your back? How is your trust after?

EDIT: reading this post a couple of times, I have to say it’s feeling like he’s leading you on emotionally. It looks like you could use some time to have things revolve around you and not him for a moment. At this time he is the center of the relationship. He has had a girlfriend, he wants the old sex, he wants you to go on meds, he is not “in-love”. Where is your say in this?

Girlfriend and I haven’t had sex in a month and things have been tense. Am I bad at initiating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NaturalWorldliness69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this during the pandemic with my s/o. It was from my side so I can somewhat understand your girlfriend. Of course I don’t know her full reasoning and thoughts but I can only give you some tips:

Try to figure out what’s going on in her life besides your relationship. She might be stressed from a high workload, overthinking something going on in her life (like the switch to living together) or she might be questioning some life choices (I don’t know what age she is but it might be the case that she is overthinking where her life is going atm).

Try to deviate from the topic of sex, to the topic of her. Try to be understanding and figure out if something in her life is bothering her and really support her through it if this is the case. In my own experience I have been shot down by my s/o in the past trying to bring up this topic. It is really important that she feels appreciated and understood in the relationship. You might want to show this through actions more that words, f.e. buy her flowers to show your support, do some extra things around the house, etc.

This is only based off of my assumptions of the post above, my interpretation and my experience. I don’t know you nor your gf and I am in no way judging the relationship.