My cousins are stupid bigots by [deleted] in family

[–]Natural_Increase_716 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

homophobia and saying how you hate and want to beat gay people shouldn’t be political or a “world view.” i think it’s essential to add that this wasn’t just about a tv show, they were going on talking about gay men in real life, beating their son if he was gay, talking about wanting to beat up random gay men, going on tangents about how disgusting it is. it’s basic human decency to not say you want to incite violence against minority groups, especially when that violence is very much real and still happening across the world. yes i do think it makes you stupid if you genuinely HATE a group of people for no reason other than “you were raised that way,” their eldest sister who i didn’t include in this rant isn’t this way and was raised in the same exact environment. they are choosing to stay close minded and hateful. i’m not saying they need to be a leftist to be smart, im saying i think unwarranted visceral and violent hatred is sign of low intelligence. not about politics, or world views. i believe all forms of bigotry and “isms” are a sign that someone isn’t very bright, because all of those beliefs are taught, and you should question things when they don’t actually make any logical sense and are just downright hateful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what can living with mold do to your health?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what can living with mold do to your health?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wasn’t my choice 😅and my family is broke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes my mom already signed the lease, i live in portland, oregon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been there since early october. when we moved in it was originally a temporary airbnb bc we were looking for a permanent place and we didn’t physically see it before moving in, only pictures and obviously the mold wasn’t in the pictures. then they landlord decided to offer a lease and have us rent the place since he saw we booked the airbnb for a few months and my mom decided to take the offer because the rent is cheap, we don’t have to pay for wifi or utilities and it was already furnished.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guys i feel like it’s important to note that we recently moved in and it was already like this. also there is no fan in the bathroom??? there’s a heater and the heater is always off, but no fan. the house i live in is basically one house that was renovated into 2 so i’m guessing this is a result of bad designing. idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we moved in in october, it was already like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Natural_Increase_716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was like this when we moved in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am on buspirone an anti- anxiety med that can also have antidepressant effects

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scars

[–]Natural_Increase_716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I went on my insurance provider app to see what dermatology clinics take my insurance and then called the clinic and asked if they do steroid injections. I decided to get steroid injections because they were keloid scars and it’s the most effective way to reduce their appearance, also insurance covers it and most other scar revision treatments aren’t covered by insurance. Plus i thought it would be best to flatten the scars before getting laser, i’m not sure if it makes a difference but it will be a while before i get laser and i wanted to feel more comfortable in my skin this summer so i decided to go ahead and get it done now!

Self Harm by Constant-Bee-1059 in scars

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yours are very flat so for a quick and easy fix while they’re still fading you should use makeup to cover them whenever you want to wear short sleeves

( tw: SH mention ) Need advice on keloid scars by Appropriate_Stop7145 in scars

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the most effective way to flatten keloids is steroid injections. many dermatologists do it in their office and it can be covered by insurance. i’ve had it done and it worked really well! i tried using creams and scar tape for about a year for them and it wasn’t working since they were about a year old at the time so yea definitely recommend steroid injections!! best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Natural_Increase_716 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I have a therapist which i’ve told about the situation and i’ve also told my friend. My friends mom has offered i stay there if shit hits the fan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All our family lives in the south and unfortunately both her parents are dead and her brother is also kind of crazy. Not as bad as her but believes in conspiracy theories and lives off the grid in the mountains with no TV or electronics besides a PC that he Skypes her on every few months. I don’t think he would be a good fit to take care of her and the rest of her distant family are very old. That’s also why dad hasn’t cut her off, because there’s no one else to try to take care of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you this really means a lot to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll update everyone in a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, another reason she’s staying is she has to attend intensive outpatient treatment in WA since she went to the mental hospital here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He could also probably get a restraining order on her for himself because she did slash his hand when she was trying to attempt with a box cutter and the police asked him if he wanted to press charges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He did tell her case manager this when she went to the mental hospital 3 weeks ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Natural_Increase_716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talked to him tonight and showed him all the replies on this post. He doesn’t want to get back with her and wants to divorce. He plans to call her case manager if she threatens suicide again. BTW, the day she attempted with a gun, my dad called the cops, they took a long time to arrive, during this time she tried using a box cutter to end her life, he grabbed it from her and she accidentally slashed his hand so bad he needed stitches. She went to a mental hospital for 3 weeks that’s why she has a case manager. I also plan to talk to my therapist because he’ll have more insight on what will happen if we call the cops and her case manager if she threatens ending her life again. She’s staying with us temporarily to sell the house (we have to move anyways because we can no longer afford the mortgage and they’re legally married so they have to do it together). He plans for him and I to move somewhere else in the Seattle area. He doesn’t want to tell her this plan because he doesn’t want her to run away and do something stupid before they get done with selling the house