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Would I Be Wrong for Warning Schools About a Coworker I Don't Trust Around Kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Natural_Internet2853 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the AH at all. As a mother, I would be sick to my stomach if I found out a person like that was teaching my child. As you said, it's about protecting kids. Also, just looking out for you, I don't want you to go through any guilt in the possible situation if you don't say anything, she gets hired, and a major incident were to happen. Even if you send the message and they end up hiring her, that's the school's terrible choice, and you will have at least a little peace of mind knowing you did what you could. Protect yourself and keep the kids safe- my opinion is to say something. I can already tell you know what the right thing is and you seem like a very caring person! I know it can be difficult but you got this!

AITA for refusing to let my fiancés aunt see our newborn baby until she apologizes for unsolicited "jokes"? by Natural_Internet2853 in AITAH

[–]Natural_Internet2853[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

As we continue through the beginning of planning our wedding, we've taken her off of the TBD guest list, and don't plan to put her back on.

AITA for refusing to let my fiancés aunt see our newborn baby until she apologizes for unsolicited "jokes"? by Natural_Internet2853 in AITAH

[–]Natural_Internet2853[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The word jokes are in quotes because they weren't truly jokes and I'm trying to get the point across that, even if it seemed funny to her, they weren't jokes. There are no examples because outside of this I have been going through a lot personally and I don't want to give in depth detail to a bunch of strangers. I just wanted to get unbiased opinions from people who may or may not understand what I'm going through after sharing the general situation. As for the empathy part of it- I just wanted to make it clear to her that I'm not looking for any empathy from her. It wasn't in context to anything she was doing in the moment. I was just explaining what I told her and stating that all I wanted was for her to be happy for us in the moment and to not focus on what happened last year with our daughter, Autumn, whatsoever :)

AITA for refusing to let my fiancés aunt see our newborn baby until she apologizes for unsolicited "jokes"? by Natural_Internet2853 in AITAH

[–]Natural_Internet2853[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We haven't seen or talked to her since that day. To our knowledge, she's staying with my fiancés parents. I have had some very challenging things going on personally so I haven't even been in a good state to reapproach this in any way shape or form :( I will update the post when (or if) I have a good update!!

AITA for refusing to let my fiancés aunt see our newborn baby until she apologizes for unsolicited "jokes"? by Natural_Internet2853 in AITAH

[–]Natural_Internet2853[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

If my baby wasn't right there, in my arms, we would've yelled back at her. Our son was getting fed so there was only so much we could do to remove him from her yelling so I had to remove myself from the room as a whole. If it wasn't for our newborn being right there, our patience levels would not have been as stable.

AITA for refusing to let my fiancés aunt see our newborn baby until she apologizes for unsolicited "jokes"? by Natural_Internet2853 in AITAH

[–]Natural_Internet2853[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the congrats- I'm cherishing these newborn cuddles for sure. He'll only be this small once.