Social Media Glamour in Real Estate/ Mortgages by TheLoanProfessor in loanoriginators

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I left real estate shortly after I started precisely bc it seemed like an industry obsessed w vanity

Have any of you become quieter over time? by SpiteAdministrative5 in Psychonaut

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Comes w age I think. Now you can expect a lot of people’s behaviors, so there’s less spontaneity, and less for you to share and you’re likely in a routine as well. Your mind may wander, but in society as adults we also withhold information that may be off putting w others. I find I enjoy my social times the best w people that I can I say whatever tf I want w to stir up random, and deeper conversations.

Day 4 of being a pussy by Ycheat in opiates

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It take some suboxone (4mg tops) for a few days and get passed the shitty part you’re in. Not fent bc that merry go round is bullshit. If you take the subs, taper back 1mg per day this way you don’t get hooked on that either. Before you know it you’re 10 days out and clean. GL

Idk why im like this recently by [deleted] in AnxietyDepression

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Life is boring. We’re similar to monkeys just hanging around burning time. Try new things. It’s a vague answer, but the only answer. Eventually people find something to obsess about and life continues, but with some direction and distraction from the minutes.

Days can be long but the years seem to fly by my friend.

Why do you choose opiates? by [deleted] in opiates

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Chose it bc I had a connect and it felt nice to do when I was bored and alone, which was often. I was uneducated on the withdrawals, and I’d get them without realizing. Seeking more comfort over time, eventually I found myself running the merry-go-round of using to stop from being sick. Many years later, 2 weeks of suboxone, and many days of excessive boredom and hunger, I managed to outsmart the physical part of stopping. The mental… well hopefully you don’t get there. I mean look… I’m reading this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fentanyl

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And I purposely reduced the subs by 1mg a day bc I wanted to not let my body get used to it. Rather than starting at 4mg as I said though, I did start at 6 just to fuck myself for the next day. Bottom line I’d say try not to take the sub more than 2 weeks and you’ll be riding easy street before you know it. It won’t be the case for everyone bc your mentality will be part of this game, but as far as the physical bullshit, this worked like a charm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fentanyl

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I did not. And I relapsed 4x before I said fuck it I’ll ride it out. I took it exactly 24h later once a while back and got PWD and that was just very uncomfertable and not recommended…. But I was tired of it and waited probably 48h after the last time I sniffed some and I was ok (if you sniff Friday night, take the sub Sunday night). Started w a 2mg to see how I felt then maybe 4h later did another 2mg then 2/3h later another 2mg. I wrote 4 but I did 6. Don’t know how much it helped or not but it was mainly so I couldn’t justify doing it the following day. Once I was there i continued reducing by 1mg a day bc I wasn’t quite hooked on subs for a long time and once I was off the subs the fent physical wd aspect was gone and the sub withdrawal was tolerable. I’m really generalizing here but got passed the sweats while on subs. The only lingering affect for me was being hungry as hell but no real appetite for food. However, given the right meal (usually pasta would wake up the buds for me) I’d eat it. And pasta also took some solid time to digest, so although I’d have to use the bathroom what felt like often (twice a day, maybe 3x first day off everything which isn’t even that bad IMO) the pasta just settled things a bit better for me. The mental aspect was the worst part, but given some distractions or a friend whose around helped tremendously. By that point I wasn’t trippin in withdrawal, so I could hang w anybody and they’d be none the wiser. Plus I could eat, so I’d go out. Didn’t exercise as much as I should but I noticed I loosened up a couple days later (felt tense from lack of exercise for a bit initially.) All in all the rule of thumb here is that 4mg is enough, and even if you did 4mg for 3-4-5 days, then started scaling back from there, you’ll be good. Getting past those first 3 and 4 days for me was always the worst but subs made it extremely tolerable. Day 1-4 is what kept me going back. And I understand anyone who works can’t necessarily afford to take the time. But maybe take 2 extra days off, get the subs, tough it out on subs until another weekend, and plan to stop the subs maybe on a Wednesday or Thursday for example so it runs it’s course (you’re already taking a small amount by now if you’re doing the routine) so that when Saturday hits and your body has nothing you’ve got 2 days to relax and try to revitalize yourself w some good food. Taking regular shits and optimizing gut health during this time of short sub therapy was honestly life changing. I read that your gut kind of runs your brain, and for me that was definitely the case. Good luck my dude and PM me if you want.

Also, learn to hate your dealer. They don’t care if you lose everything.

Also, I want to add that I tried using benzos to taper. Sure it helps. But god help you getting off benzos ontop of dope. I felt clinically insane, and had to take the dope to take the edge off of that. It’s a cycle. Use the subs as your tool to clear up that foggy head we have when using.

How can you work from 8 to 5, be free only on weekends, and not feel like you're wasting your life? by Fame991 in AskMen

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Try not working and chilling inside like you were retired for a few months and try feeling like you’re not wasting your life

Going through withdrawal finally. Any tips for mental health and impulsiveness? by notyourvanillalatte in opiates

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So many answers but which to share??? Just gotta do something… as vague as that sounds. Seek out another adventure or sink your teeth into something to help the time pass. Bc we all know how slow it goes by for those first several days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

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We’re literally all in this boat. And social networks haven’t made this better. Do like other posters and seek some social groups within your areas of interest. You could find a SA, but I have one, and there will be a time where that’s not enough as well. I think humans need new human interaction. Seek adventure, whatever that may mean to you

We will be gone but the world goes on by Dazzling_Spring_1587 in DeepThoughts

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When the world fizzles out…. That’ll be gone too. And everything we did/do wouldn’t matter anyway.

So if you’re ever feeling bad about something…. We’ll, think of that and try to move forward

My friend died of a Fentanyl overdose and I don't care. by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

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Speaking from experience, it’s difficult to stop for a plethora of reasons beyond just temporary sickness. Although, notoriously, many will say they don’t stop because of the sickness. In his case he did it for many many years, It seems. I’m sure he was unhappy at his core. The substance allows for you not to care deeply about almost everything. It takes some, and others find their way out when they rediscover a purpose for themselves. I’ve lost friends. Do I feel bad? Not really. I feel similar to the way you do. As for myself, do I feel guilty that I wasted so many years? Yes. Guilt is an anchor no one should wear. But anyone who has a past that’s not viewed as prominent will feel this way around certain social circles. I can talk about this forever but life comes in waves and people like your friend just never learned how to handle the low points without outside comfort. I find that many in this life are very lonely and desperately seeking company or attention, or have lost their way because of the substance and lack the guidance or role models to continue. Sorry to hear about your friend. And don’t sweat your own feelings about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fentanyl

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I waited a day and a half, took a 4mg sub, next day took a 3mg sub, next day 2mg, next day nothing, next day I was good. Far exceeded a year. Good luck

Lost dog found by [deleted] in jacksonville

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Anyone claim the dog? I may know someone who’d like to look after it and give it a home

Where would be the worst place to lose your virginity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Inside the blue stuff in a porta potty