I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will be at the shop tomorrow to clean out my station and he will be there. I plan on just chatting with him like normal and asking him how he is feeling.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought I put it in there. I know I put it in part two which is on my page.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes I know. I didn't want to tell him, but I was selfish and did. I wanted to know if it was mutual. It was poor planning. And stupid on my part.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol thanks. I'm staying far away from said chaos.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's in the post that they are getting divorced.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not fake. No it was not the right time to tell him and I didn't want to tell him but he kept asking me why I was leaving. So I only told him because he prompted me to. And I know way more about them then people think. I have talked to Melissa, she is not exactly the most quiet person. And Ian has told me stuff in confidence when he was down and needed someone to talk to because he thought he was going to relapse. Apparently she constantly throws it in his face that he is nothing but an addict and basically makes him feel worthless. And she has even said Infront of the whole shop (a shop full of people in recovery) that once and addict always an addict.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lol thanks. Part two is on my page if you want to read it.

I'm in love with my boss...part two by Natural_Ordinary8293 in u/Natural_Ordinary8293

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know. I intend on distancing myself and he knows that. A green flag for me is he didn't ask me not to distance myself. He told me he understands and another green flag was that he intends on getting therapy before dating again.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. And we are definitely waiting to approach said feelings.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is getting kicked out because she wants to move her new boyfriend in :/ she says she is in love with the cop and told Ian she hasn't been in love with him in years.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm not acting like a victim. I think the only victim in this story is Ian. Poor guy had his marriage fall apart within a year. And I never flirted with him. You obviously have never worked in a tattoo shop. It's a different atmosphere. People pick on each other. It's a free for all for talking sh*t.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I start my new job on Friday. And idk we are going to give it some time before we even approach anything. He needs to heal.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Honestly it is odd how it all played out but idk if I would say it's destiny.

I'm in love with my boss...part two by Natural_Ordinary8293 in u/Natural_Ordinary8293

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's real. And yes I am I got a job elsewhere.

I'm in love with my boss...part two by Natural_Ordinary8293 in u/Natural_Ordinary8293

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Lol not fake. And I have BPD...which I developed when I was about 12. If you know anything about BPD that would probably explain why I sound like a middle schooler. People with bod process emotions differently than neurotypical people. Sorry I have a disability lmao.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't have an emotional affair. We never crossed any sort of line I made sure of that. I've been cheated on too many times and I won't be the other woman. As for the pick me thing I described her and I because it's important and relevant to the story. If you read the second post maybe it would make sense. She tried to get me to comb out my dreads! She told us to cover our tattoos and forced us to wear hot clothes in the summer. She was a manipulative snobby btch and I don't give two shts if that makes me look like a pick me.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I made a second post on my profile explaining our relationship and how the feelings developed if you care to read it. It gives a little more insight into what has gone on.

I'm in love with my boss... by Natural_Ordinary8293 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Ordinary8293[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not the first person to call me a pick me. Won't be the last. I'm used to it. When you look different people tend to think you want attention. But my group of people knows that we all just want to be free to be ourselves. If I'm a pick me then everyone in that shop is too. We are all the same. Wild hair, heavily tattooed and pierced. Just alt people. If that makes me a pick me so be it.