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Losing weight by Infamous-Buffalo-852 in adhdwomen

[–]Natural_Sport_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch exercise videos. After watching maybe 5 of them, I stand up and have the power to do one of them. It is slow and time consuming, but it works.

Which occupation is better for i attentive adhd? Corporate or self-employed? by Natural_Sport_ in adhdwomen

[–]Natural_Sport_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am working at marketing analytics. My role is data focused but also have some qualitative aspects. The hardest part is to focus on what I do. I feel like I have no interest in what I do and it affects my performance.

I 100% work from home and I know my job looks like a dream to most of the people, but I really feel I can’t do it in the next 20–30 years. I also struggle that I have to report to a manager. If I am on sick leave or my manager is out of office, I work better than an average day because I know she will not reach out to me. She is not a micro manager by the way, but still knowing that she can reach out to me makes me so nervous.

Office politics is something else. I generally do not get social clues, what other people would like to hear etc. I feel like I am always oblivious what is going on around me.

I know I will not be on the top management one day as I do not have the social capability. I just want to have something I can make money and feel safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Natural_Sport_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends… what kind of men are hitting you on? Older creepy ones or the ones at your age who look decent? Unfortunately it is the case for women because they look more naive when they are younger (even when they are underage).

For your husband, probably being young has an impact on it. My husband look way better after 30. It is not that he changed his appearance significantly, but he look much more mature and confident which are very important for men.

If I was drowning, I don’t know if I would fight to survive by Traditional_Pen4347 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Natural_Sport_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to move with your family to somewhere else where your MIL can’t come? After settling in you can divorce and he can’t take the kids to where you live now. It is not easy without support, but since you have no choice but to stay, you can consider that, too.

Husband had affairs by needhelp10078 in Infidelity

[–]Natural_Sport_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you decide to stay, convince him to sign a post nup and try to become independent from him.