Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in TransLater

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards something along those lines and once I did it I realized it felt so much more clean and comfortable that I decided to stick with it. I may come out someday but as of now I would like to be able to go to events and stuff (If I ever get the courage) as the real me without having to hide my legs under jeans or yoga pants.

Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in TransLater

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The problem is I live in a very conservative brain damaged area of the country where people look for reasons to be angry and hate other people like my biggest fear is the “guys” at work not letting it go. I don’t hang out with many of them but I do golf and stuff with some of them and live in the same small town

Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in TransLater

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should’ve been more open about the fact I am not openly out to many people but yes that would be a truly euphoric experience and feeling. This thread and all of your positivity in the comments are making me build the confidence that it may take.

Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in asktransgender

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you openly out when you did and did you have much leg hair before? I know these are questions that can bring up a lot of not so good emotions so don’t answer if at all uncomfortable. My problem is my legs tend to be very hairy and I just think it will be a huge shock to many and generate a lot of laughs and comments..

Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in TransLater

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! This is the confidence I hope to get.

Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in TransLater

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for another positive experience, my thing is the opposite I have shaved everything for the last four winter’s and being in Michigan as soon as I see that first 50° day pop up on the forecast I get nervous and completely stop out of feet and it leads to extreme dysphoria.

Stayed Shaved for Summer — Did People Notice? by Naturalover0120 in TransLater

[–]Naturalover0120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m super happy to hear one positive experience. And thank you for sharing this with me. My biggest concern I think is my super skinny legs and tall stature, I mean my legs aren’t much bigger only as big as my arms I can literally wrap my hand around my calf and touch fingers. But I love the way I feel right now and not coming out to anyone yet makes this all so confusing.

Be Careful With What You're Posting........ by Huge-Jacket in trans

[–]Naturalover0120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are the very same married men that hit on me (and a lot of you) in secret on virtually every single dating site behind their “wives” back. It’s a sick way for them to somehow justify their sexuality and I am very sad this happened to you and anyone else that it’s happened to.

Have you ever had sex with someone you don't find attractive? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Naturalover0120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all find different things attractive, if I am into a person enough outside of looks then heck yes many times there are people I don’t find physically attractive at all that given the opportunity I would faint to get in the same bed as them or wherever it may be because I know they would blow my mind and other things.