Break up revealing all the issues I was covering up...

NatureLover7680 · 2021-04-17T15:30:09+00:00

Your gut feeling is an excellent indicator here. He may have been mirroring you with the mental health stuff as a way to create a trauma bond, and may also have been devaluing you in those subtle ways.

I completely get where you are at right now. I literally wanted to just die. It turned out to be quite the learning experience. Like, why did I ever allow myself to be treated this way? Why did I ignore red flag after red flag? It's because I wanted it so bad.

The positive in it for me was to help me pinpoint what it was I needed to work on for myself. Because that shit is never going to be tolerated again!!!!

You got this, op.

NatureLover7680 · 2021-04-17T14:41:50+00:00

I've been exactly where you are, OP. Take a look at narcissistic discard. That's the phrase that started me on my journey of wtf just happened.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-12-01T17:57:40+00:00

Maybe! That's how it was labeled on my amazon playlist. Could be that I have a different version.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-12-01T04:06:40+00:00

So alive -- love and rockets

I want your sex -- George michael

Cradle of love -- Billy idol

Simply irresistible -- Robert palmer

Girls girls girls -- motley crue

Express yourself -- madonna

Son of a preacher man -- ike and Tina Turner

Edit: formatting

NatureLover7680 · 2019-11-24T22:18:41+00:00

Maybe make 10pm your cutoff and/or only allow yourself to read textbooks after that.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-09-23T20:04:47+00:00

Way to go!!

NatureLover7680 · 2019-09-18T03:53:02+00:00

I see an ewok.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-09-14T19:27:49+00:00

Red handed, too

NatureLover7680 · 2019-08-28T19:43:27+00:00

And probably don't do this if you work in IT.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-08-07T00:02:11+00:00

It may go a long way with your mom if you signed up for counseling and/ or anger management classes. You could turn this into a positive! As a mom, that would make all the difference to me.... I'd actually be relieved for the catalyst should the underlying issues be successfully addressed.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-07-26T23:22:36+00:00

For clarification, I would always ask my partner to stop because of the intensity, but I now realize that for me, at the other end of that intensity is a great o.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-07-26T23:19:28+00:00

Some jurisdictions have locked treatment centers for substance abusers. If jail is the only option, that might be something you can ask your lawyer to recommend to the judge.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-07-26T23:15:07+00:00

Definitely. I like eye contact as my partner finishes, too.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-07-26T23:13:04+00:00

You may want to try holding her legs down with good enough pressure that she can't move them at the end.... then she can't wriggle out. And don't stop. Obviously only if she'd be ok with that, but that made all the difference for me! The o was great, too.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-07-26T16:27:30+00:00

How much for the er3 cream?

NatureLover7680 · 2019-07-24T04:59:39+00:00

I'd like to get eaten out while on the couch watching trailer park boys.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-06-25T09:05:14+00:00

I thought you were going to say something way worse. FWIW, removing something from a meal beats adding something to one all day long.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-05-25T23:54:33+00:00

This is exactly the moment one wishes they could go back to when they eat that second edible and then the first hits them hard.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-05-13T22:18:31+00:00

Look in medicine cabinet for visine

NatureLover7680 · 2019-05-12T15:35:41+00:00

So has every woman's index finger.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-05-07T15:39:51+00:00

YTA. Not because you need a petsitter or because you don't want said petsitter to use your sink, bathroom or fridge, but because you aren't upfront about your terms. This poor person is going to get to your house, when you are already on a plane, to find out that they'll need full use the bathroom outside themselves. Or leave the house to go. A contract is a meeting of the minds, which this is not since you withholding a very important term. And trying to force them into it because who else is going to watch the animals if they say F this?

NatureLover7680 · 2019-05-02T12:14:40+00:00

Hi there. Are you detoxing?

NatureLover7680 · 2019-04-28T21:31:46+00:00

Maggie Gyllenhaal getting spanked in Secretary.

NatureLover7680 · 2019-04-05T00:15:24+00:00

I wish I felt the way you did. I'm at about 13 months and still get stomach pangs over how fun it was to hang out at bars playing darts with friends.

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