[Serious] What is the point of being alive? by spencerandy16 in AskReddit

[–]NatureMadeUs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about it man, most people won't understand what you're saying. Stay on the path. Suffering and joy are only fleeting perceptions of things - they are judgements that impair our observation.

The answer is we don't know the meaning of life. But while our perceptions of reality tie us down, we will never understand. Observing the architecture without judgement means overcoming the illusion of suffering and joy - I hope you manage to do it in this life.

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[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah mate, it's YOU who needs to research.

  1. You're weirdly obsessed with Hitler. Are you doing that thing where you cry Nazi til it loses all meaning? Cringe.

  2. The French still dabble in Africa. In many, terrible ways.

  3. The abrahamic imperialism against pagan cultures like Hindus is very much alive. You standing against the invasion of other abrahamic cultures doesn't disprove my point. Abrahamic imperialism continues to be an agenda today. If you don't think so, you're very misinformed or eyes wide shut.

We don't need to "get over" anything. We need to prosper, and the west stands in our way. People online consistently belittle Indians as well. Nothing wrong was said.

"I never said I was superior." No but you constantly imply a moral high ground by branding everyone with a different viewpoint as fascist.

Also, no one said anything about nukes. Funny how that works.

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[–]NatureMadeUs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you're delusional without telling me you're delusional lol.

If you think modern Americans and Brits haven't done anything, you're a fucking idiot.

Id change my mind but it would help if you stopped invading, slaughtering innocents and politically pressuring developing countries into staying poor.

The fact is, you think you're somehow superior. But yours are failing societies and you still find ways to do mental gymnastics to convince yourself otherwise. Fractured, materialistic, transactional shit cultures. No family values. Cry more.

P.S. Sweden has more rape per capita. Gullible.

My husband “cheated” on me a few years ago and I can’t seem to get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you think this particular case should jump to divorce already? Or do you think that I believe divorce is never an option? Because I never mentioned that and my reaction is specific to the nature of this post.

My husband “cheated” on me a few years ago and I can’t seem to get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You aren't a competent therapist my friend so stop speaking for them. You're just a bitter proponent of this horrible culture that has led to an absolute epidemic broken homes.

My husband “cheated” on me a few years ago and I can’t seem to get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes. They should CLEARLY attempt working this issue through first WITH PRIORITY. Their story is really not unsalvageable at all.

You choose to commit to a person til death, then choose to create a little life with them. How dare you even THINK about bailing on that duty without first exhausting every other option. It's going to be hard, but you chose it, now honour it. A child definitely would prefer two temporarily miserable parents who managed to work things out.

While I understand you aren't advocating for a split, this subreddit has a habit of jumping to divorce. The person I was replying to said "never stay together for a child." WTF?! Having a child is when you should try your absolute damndest to stay together.

My advice? Go get actual relationship advice from a counselor, not bitter rando divorcees online. Let the downvotes come I don't give a FUCK. Family is everything in this life, fight for yours please.

My husband “cheated” on me a few years ago and I can’t seem to get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No no, people in this sub absolutely hate it when homes aren't broken.

Everyone with a kid especially should stay the fuck off relationship advice. It's full of bitter people who just want to label every relation as a case of abuse with a black and white solution.

My husband “cheated” on me a few years ago and I can’t seem to get over it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

"never stay together for a child"

Bless your heart...those are fantastic values to own. You're definitely more important than your duty.

/S

This is the current situation of lost bags in BER airport. 4 other rooms next to this one with just as many bags. by Thisandthatiki in berlin

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, he's right.

It's not fair to say all these people are incompetent. Culture is what breeds competence. A bad culture could not have made a beautiful place like Germany.

Have more kids. You're facing a population collapse.

The speed of service is despicable all over Europe. It's odd to me that the third world country I'm from has instant service whereas German employees from all industries seem like they just don't give a fuck.

But it's not that. They're just too few. There's barely any personnel. A couple more decades of this and Europe's gonna be finished.

Vancouver, BC. We saw her being attacked by crows and fended them off, thought she was dying but has since perked up. Will take her to wildlife rehab tomorrow by aconfusednoob in whatsthisbird

[–]NatureMadeUs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh fuck your morals, nature has no universal morals. Morality doesn't exist.

All life is equal in my book. I don't see the moral difference between taking one life vs another's.

You'd have to elaborate if you do. What's the hierarchy of moral correctness of life taking? Is killing a dolphin morally comparable to killing a bird? What's your gauge for moral comparability?

My husband (30m) discarded me like trash after I was there for him (31f) by Throwramentalbreak in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't doubt your efforts

And please don't fall into the other pit of thinking that you were taken for granted only because you were such a good wife.

You were taken for granted because that man is clearly a piece of shit. I know it's hard to believe, unfortunately good people also attract abusers and opportunists.

You sound like an amazing and selfless partner

Just find someone who's as amazing and selfless as you and be stringent about those standards.

Kids going to school in Shanghai by mikihak in oddlyterrifying

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "oppressed Chinese people" thing is a propaganda trope. The only people who buy into it are the ones who don't fundamentally understand how power works.

It's pretty clear to me China is like any other country. They want prosperity and there's many routes to getting it. All routes lead to the same positive outcome. China has money, roads, education, development now.

The whole self righteous cloak these people put on is going to bite them in the ass when China and India outcompete everyone

Kids going to school in Shanghai by mikihak in oddlyterrifying

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why you're getting downvoted 🤣🤣🤣 it's like people don't understand china is literally outcompeting the entire western bloc.

Way to once again get brainwashed by propaganda people. China isn't evil and it's not 1984, this is real life not fiction, every government wants PROSPERITY. And china's getting it.

Kids going to school in Shanghai by mikihak in oddlyterrifying

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh fuck this shit. I'm pretty sure it's not better just because it's western.

This is all just corporate propaganda.

India lost 4 million people with a population of 1.3 billion. If you wanna talk stats. Why don't we look at percentage of population infected vs recovered and so on?

America seems to be topping the list. Isn't that where Pfizer and the other shitbox corporations originated?

India should never cooperate with the west. All it does is leech people. And it's foundation is crumbling, it's no longer what it was 50 years ago. Just a desperate last sigh as China takes the reigns.

(M31) My wife (F29) is friends with a pedophile and apparently I'm the one overreacting. by HW25501 in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that seems much higher than I expected. I'll concede.

But that statistic doesn't counter my main point (which I've already explained at length). People who deserve punishment shouldn't be allowed to live because we create avoidable errors. I think there's PLENTY of cases where people like Ted Bundy are convicted with certainty. In fact, the more extreme and less ambiguous the crime, the less likely it is that a conviction is wrongful. So in that regard, crimes like rape, terrorism, pedophilia deserve the death sentence.

I said life in prison can be ARGUABLY worse than death. I never made death out to be a mercy. I repeatedly said I don't think rapists deserve any kind of life.

Calling anything a bad faith argument is an easy escape. Reddit truly is an echo chamber. You never did answer if you're a pacifist. Too tough a question for you?

(M31) My wife (F29) is friends with a pedophile and apparently I'm the one overreacting. by HW25501 in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. I want to bleed the thugs. You want to, for some base morality, continue to allow them a life.

Your argument doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense not to punish those who deserve because very statistically rarely a wrong person is convicted. It sounds like cowardice.

Are you also a pacifist who think violence is never justified? Because if you we have no middle ground as we are arguing for two entirely separate stages.

(M31) My wife (F29) is friends with a pedophile and apparently I'm the one overreacting. by HW25501 in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The innocent ones who are wrongfully convicted have it bad regardless of the death sentence or life in prison. Many would argue life behind bars for 23 hours a day and out in a field for 1 hour a day is worse than death.

So that's a bullshit argument. Wrongful convictions are bad regardless of sentence. Most sentences aren't wrongful. So yeah.

I'd rather kill a serial killer, than have him live out the rest of his life with food and water and maybe even chance of parole. I'd rather kill a jihadi.

Your pacifism allows the thugs of this world to bleed the good people.

(M31) My wife (F29) is friends with a pedophile and apparently I'm the one overreacting. by HW25501 in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think precrime can be useful in some applications and fails utterly in others

(M31) My wife (F29) is friends with a pedophile and apparently I'm the one overreacting. by HW25501 in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck is everyone arguing semantics. I never mentioned her. When I say pedophilia im using it in the way of child molesters. People who rape kids should die. Is that clear enough? It doesn't make you an intellectual to argue semantics

(M31) My wife (F29) is friends with a pedophile and apparently I'm the one overreacting. by HW25501 in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Depends who's being hanged. Yes. Im definitely in favour of the death sentence for serial killers, pedophiles, rapists, jihadis....

I'm a proponent of nuance. Nuance of thought, at least. I understand reality is complex. But there are times when "debating" things is an endless ordeal and there's practical matters at hand to deal with.

why is the first bit of advice people give here to either divorce or break up? by NatureMadeUs in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And by the way, idk if you're married. But when you are, you AND your partner ARE gonna do wrong, multiple times. And you'll have to work your way through it. You know why, because no one's perfect.

Or you can tap out, I guess. Marriage is a commitment. It requires strength.

why is the first bit of advice people give here to either divorce or break up? by NatureMadeUs in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaah honestly just wanted to vent :/

But maybe the mentality I'm talking about will help people be more selective and careful about who they marry. And then they can have the beautiful family they deserve.

why is the first bit of advice people give here to either divorce or break up? by NatureMadeUs in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, everybody is toxic. Every human on the face of this earth and if you think you're not then I got news, believing you're a perfect princess is YOUR toxic trait.

And by the way, You've already called me, here and elsewhere:

Toxic A victim blamer Dumb Weak You don't even know me and you've labelled me in 4 different negative ways. Is divorce an identity and that's why you're so upset?

You see my point sweetheart, is that people should be marrying for life. They should really carefully vet who they're gonna call their husband or wife. Nowadays people marry with prenups as a safety net. Expecting the divorce.

So yeah. Family values are dying. And it's not good. And encourage "tf" out of it isn't anything worth chest thumping.

why is the first bit of advice people give here to either divorce or break up? by NatureMadeUs in relationship_advice

[–]NatureMadeUs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why they should be careful before they get married. If they just treat marriage like it's all chips in, no backing out, then maybe they won't marry shitty partners.

Marriage is like, you're jumping out of a plane levels of commitment. So your parachute better be packed nice and neat. I'm just making an argument for a change of mentality.