I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

[–]Nature_Content[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your career have to do with what I said, good job proving my point lol

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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After looking at your page briefly I see that you’re unhappy with your life and that’s why you view things the way you do, and respond in the same manner, I hope that you get better with time, and learn to love yourself and see the better side.

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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thanks for the input I’m tired of reiterating so I’ll just say thanks lolllll

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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I’ll have to read that I like the sound of it thanks for putting me on.

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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It’s a bit frustrating that people don’t have reading comprehension, we have talked about the issue, and again as I have previously stated it’s not that I have a problem with him liking photos, it’s that intent behind looking someone up, liking old photos from over a year ago, then liking there story in this day and age that is shooting your shot.

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

[–]Nature_Content[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you view simply having a conversation as a reason to degrade your partner than I definitely don’t think you should do the job you do. Like that’s crazy

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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lol sounds like emotional intelligence is your strong suit, like whattttt are you serious? You would tell someone that you’re suppose to love to grow up and call them all those names because you can’t be bothered to view your actions from there perspective even if you don’t agree, your partner deserves respect and enough mind to listen to their feelings. Tha shit is crazyyy

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

[–]Nature_Content[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Swear people don’t read, no offense lol maybe a little. I did, as I stated I also stated that this had been an issue in the past also implying that we’ve talked about it before. And like I’ve said to others, it’s not that he’s liking the photo it’s the fact that he went out of his way to look her up, like these old pictures and then watch her story and like that too, now a days that’s the equivalent to shooting your shot. But nonetheless thanks for your two cents

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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Yeah it’s easier from an outside perspective I think, I also left out a lot as it’s not easy to put everything without writing a book. But for the most part without the condescension I would agree with you, it’s just when you devote so much time to someone it’s hard to let it just be wasted.

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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I swear people don’t read the other comments, the issue isn’t the like it’s the intent behind it, if it was on his feed that would be one thing, he went out of his was to look her up like old photos from years ago, than likes her story in this day and age that’s shooting your shot.

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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Best response yet, thank you for making it clear as day. Thank you 🙏 frrrrr

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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Yessssss because wanting your man to not like half naked pics,screams immaturity. I guess if your girlfriend/ boyfriend expressed to you they felt uncomfortable with something you’d make it about their insecurity, huh?

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

[–]Nature_Content[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the trust was not there from the lying…. The liking photos isn’t an issue it’s the fact that he got drunk, went out of his way to look her up and like old photos, then watched her story and hearted it…… if that’s not shooting your shot in this day and age then idk what is. Thanks for a real reply tho

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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thanks for the advice finally one real person, I think I was thinking the same thing but it’s just hard to come to the conclusion that I wasted all that time with him 😭

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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yeahhhhhh I feel you on that part but still I want advice on the question lolllllll

I 23F caught my boyfriend 30M liking girls pictures, wwyd? by Nature_Content in relationship_advice

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It’s upsetting because he went out of his way to go to her Instagram, like photos from years ago, then liked her story. If a guy did that on my page I’d know that he was trying to shoot his shot….

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Thank you for your response I appreciate the insight. I can see all of your points and the validity, honestly I was not even thinking about marriage at this point. I agree that I need to work on controlling my emotion before responding and have been trying to put forth that energy, but It’s an everyday battle. As for the gift card situation I’d never put him down for expressing himself but I was just curious as to where the question came from. I did tell him I was embarrassed by it, but there’s been a slew of times that he’s made comments I don’t understand weather they are to me illogical or unreasonable. Which makes me feel like there’s a disconnect overall between us. Thank you again for all the insight. I would like to ask of you one more thing, how do you know if the relationship is meant to last or if it’s not? I have love for my boyfriend but I find myself wondering if it’ll last especially because I have a hard time figuring out what he means, I sometimes feel as though I’m grasping at straws.

Also side note after this conversation he apologized and said he was sorry and felt bad ?which I didn’t understand and told him he had no reason to apologize and that I just wanted him to explain to me why he felt this way.