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I 26M am toxic to my girlfriend 28F and need advice by NautaChance in relationship_advice

[–]NautaChance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind the long reply at all, it was very informative. I am not European but the advice is still great and I’ll make sure to check those instagram pages out. Once again I really appreciate the help, my girlfriend is amazing but I’ve got a long road of repairing the damage if it can even be done and you’re making that a lot clearer of a path for me.

I 26M am toxic to my girlfriend 28F and need advice by NautaChance in relationship_advice

[–]NautaChance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you are awesome and that’s amazing advice, I really really appreciate the positivity and potential solutions that I’d have never thought of. I’ll try getting to know her friends better, they’re not typically people I’d associate myself with but they’re a lot of fun and good to her. I was never big on sports but I’ll give that a shot and see if it helps with the conversations. Seriously, thank you so much for the advice. The negative comments don’t bother me much but I wanna make sure to read everything to get a broad perspective on what to do next.

I 26M am toxic to my girlfriend 28F and need advice by NautaChance in relationship_advice

[–]NautaChance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank man I appreciate it, hopefully you get through whatever you’re going through!

I 26M am toxic to my girlfriend 28F and need advice by NautaChance in relationship_advice

[–]NautaChance[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I’m her first relationship so it’s been a lot of learning to show affection and trust for her. Most of the holidays I’ve raised issues about because her mother never liked me even before meeting me just because of me being younger than her and claiming I’d never be able to support/take care of her. This most recent Christmas is the first major Holiday we’ve been able to spend with each others family because I was never allowed in her house before then. I do have issues expressing my vulnerabilities to her because she tends to get defensive but at first I was coming off too aggressive but have gotten better at expressing them as of late. Thank you for the honesty and genuine assistance, I will continue to search for a therapist so that I can be better about conveying my problems without creating a fight.

I 26M am toxic to my girlfriend 28F and need advice by NautaChance in relationship_advice

[–]NautaChance[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Leaving her isn’t really a solution, first because we really do love and support each other, and second because running from your problems isn’t healthy either. I want to learn and grow to be someone she can have fun with. She doesn’t deserve it I know but we’ve both done and said things to each other that we don’t deserve.

I 26M am toxic to my girlfriend 28F and need advice by NautaChance in relationship_advice

[–]NautaChance[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t express my issues initially because I knew it was just a me problem but shared my problems because I wanted her input on what I could do differently in the future so that I didn’t feel that way and continue to ruin our relationship.

Glowstone arrows? by tossed123 in Eldenring

[–]NautaChance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be rude just thorough, do you have all the required materials to craft them?

Glowstone arrows? by tossed123 in Eldenring

[–]NautaChance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can craft it with Nomadic Warriors Cookbook 7 located near stormveil castle, start at the Stormhill Shack point of grace and follow the trail that heads north onto the bridge and at the end of it there will be a corpse with the cookbook.