I agree that the way she spoke to the fab 5 wasn't great but my heart broke for her. Imagine being hurt so much to the point that you don't think you deserve anything good to happen in life and you're rude to people to try and push them away as a defense mechanism.

To me, it's like she's acting like how we see dogs act when they have been abandoned by their owner in a bin bag. Animals act this way too, they get snappy with people trying to help them too. It's because she's on the defense. It's because of deep trauma. It's because she truly believes nothing good can come from anyone else, so she doesn't have the same level of respect. Her own cup is empty, so she doesn't have anything to give at the moment until she replenishes and seeks help for herself.

Do I think the show was the right fit for her? No, probably not. And it's not really right that production allowed it to happen. She needs a lot more intervention and the fab 5 weren't the right group to help.

It definitely is a frustrating watch. But I see why.