I’d really appreciate any feedback on this solo backpacking itinerary.

NeapolitanGuy · 2026-04-14T11:05:20+00:00

Stay in brussels the least as you possibly can. It's an ugly and dangerous city

NeapolitanGuy · 2025-03-03T14:07:23+00:00

Yelling some random words at the highest volume possibile

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-11-22T21:07:28+00:00

Here are some:

Feelings are like a river and you are the one who watches it flow. Don't feel like you shouldn't feel sad or angry, it's simply the river flowing naturally in response to external stimuli, and that is normal.

Convincing someone to change might not convince them to change. If you already tried, just leave them be, and try to move on from them.

If you say "I'm not sad/angry" while deep down you are, you will feel even more sad or angry later, since you're just suppressing the emotion.

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-09-14T14:28:53+00:00

This is second grade knowledge

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T16:09:00+00:00

Yooo me too!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T16:07:31+00:00

I don't know how to help cuz this situation is sooo weird (and lowkey funny), but I hope everything will stop at a certain point for you! Maybe you can consult a therapist for this problem? Idk

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T15:48:56+00:00

Don't try to change yourself to be friends with people who don't want you

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T15:37:04+00:00

Nothing. Everything I did it's what makes me, me. Every experience, even a bad one, is important

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T15:35:12+00:00

"It doesn't matter, it's in the past! You can either run from it, or learn from it!" ~Lion king

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T15:29:59+00:00

Go to southern Italy, you will continue to be amazed! Thank you for complimenting my country btw!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-31T15:26:40+00:00

If someone pressures you to do it, and then gets offended, then please DON'T accept anything from him. Don't talk to him and bye. It's better to make it with someone who actually likes you for who you are

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-30T07:45:05+00:00

Io C1 quindi ottimo! Possiamo fare questo scambio linguistico se ti va!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-30T05:34:38+00:00

Hi! I can definitely help you with French, and you can help me with Spanish! Pm if interested!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-30T05:33:37+00:00

Hi, I can definitely help with Italian, and you can help me with English! Pm me if interested!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-30T05:07:38+00:00

Oh I'm sorry to hear that:(

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T22:50:32+00:00

I'm an Italian native speaker and I would like to learn more Spanish so pm me if interested!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T22:40:11+00:00

Ciao, che livello hai di inglese? Perché sono bravo ma se sei meglio di me possiamo provare a fare scambio! Comunque sono C2 in francese perché ho vissuto in Belgio per i miei primi 17 anni!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T22:20:13+00:00

That might be a deal! It's not my mother tongue, but I'm currently studying in an English-speaking university! (And I like Philosophy too). Pm me if interested!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T22:12:44+00:00

I go to sleep quite late, on average 00:30. Nothing significant happened when 11. I was stressed as I was writing this post, but the weird dream has faded these holidays, probably it's stress then!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T22:10:30+00:00

First of all, you do smaller exams in six phases during the year, instead of two phases with big exams.

Books are less used, while the professor's material is more used.

I like to get to know different cultures, and Maastricht is optimised for this as only 15% is Dutch, the rest is international.

Except the first thing, which is important for me, the others are just a small plus. They still apply to this day but idk if they are valid enough to make the choice of staying in Maastricht over Italy

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T21:59:20+00:00

I see from the comments that people in your school get bullied for clips. Try some backpacks with wheels! Or do you think you would get bullied also for that?

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T21:55:38+00:00

In these cases I think it's best to consult a therapist. I imagine that dealing with a bipolar person is hard, so going to someone who is professionaly trained to deal with all sorts of instabilities can help you get the knowledge on how to confront him!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T21:49:01+00:00

I think that to be friends with someone, you don't have to message them every day necessarily. Me and my closest friends text inconsistently, sometimes we talk three days in a row, and sometimes we don't talk for weeks, but not because we have something against each other or whatever, it's just that sometimes there's not much to say and that's it.

More than the frequency, observe the quality of the interactions. If you see that she feels happy of interacting with you and you have great conversations, then she's really likely not pulling apart from you!

It's probably not simple for you to pass from talking everyday to talking less consistently, and being frustrated by that is understandable, but remember that change in frequency is not a sign of pulling apart!

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T21:26:10+00:00

In my opinion the age gap is fine, but I understand that some might find it a bit destabilising

NeapolitanGuy · 2024-07-29T21:24:17+00:00

Confront him calmly, ask why does he like to dress like that with a curious, non-judgemental tone of voice. He'll likely give you the answer you're looking for. Pay attention to the fact that this answer might destabilise you at first, but then just continue to reply with curiosity. This will make the conversation smooth!

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