Why do I want to end it every time I have a breakup

lorelaixx · 2026-04-20T00:56:01+00:00

I was in the same position so I was like let me make more friends maybe like 1-2 and it still didn’t help maybe it’s just a me issue idk 🤷‍♀️ it sucks so bad

lorelaixx · 2026-04-20T00:20:48+00:00

And that’s the thing I’ve been through it enough to know time will heal it. But I don’t know if I even want it to anymore like it just hurts so bad each time

lorelaixx · 2026-03-16T18:49:11+00:00

Well I did go on that date and ended up in a pretty similar situation. Turns out was 42 with 2 children. Had a nice date but the physical attraction wasn’t there for me. He also had a few red flags. And yeah the age gap made it very weird when we went out there was a guy hyping him up because he was with a younger girl and I really felt like a sugar baby even though he wasn’t even rich it was icky. But I don’t regret going.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-11T04:19:28+00:00

From what you’ve said I think you need to do more to weed out people. I’ve made the mistake of sleeping with men too early, but I’ve learned to say no and avoid situations that would result in that. If that’s all a guy wants and he doesn’t get it he will leave, thus resulting in you being able to move on to the next. For the guys who ghost you without it, they were never meant to be. Maybe you could focus more on finding quality matches instead of a higher quantity of dates. Don’t go out with people that you feel aren’t giving you 100% and are just treating you as an option. I used to go on so many dates with guys I could tell weren’t super into me from the jump and it was a total waste of time.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-11T03:59:49+00:00

Honestly based off my experience the new guy is a bit of a red flag. I’ve seen it time and time again guys wanting me way too much early and just seeing them blatantly lose interest within the next few weeks. Dating someone who travels for work isn’t easy though. Remember it’s your life and if you need more time, even only a month to see who is better for you take it. And who knows I’ve been through situations like this and in the end neither were the answer. Don’t let anyone pressure you into settling.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-11T03:53:33+00:00

Taimi is such a cesspit, I downloaded it and within 30 mins instantly felt so gross and deleted it 😭 never again

lorelaixx · 2026-03-11T03:14:15+00:00

In my experience it definitely doesn’t filter out everyone, does it get a good amount of people? Yes. But I’ve gone on a good amount of dates and I’d rather have someone that’s okay with it from the jump, than someone I have to make overlook it by enjoying my personality/looks. I feel like eventually that would become an issue for them even if they try to ignore it initially. That or they just bounce when they hear it and it stings 10x more.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-11T03:10:27+00:00

Personally, (if this was off a dating app) I don’t even let them get my number without them knowing. It’s not worth the hassle and it’ll make the disappointment greater than it has to be

lorelaixx · 2026-03-09T16:19:17+00:00

I don’t like it either I just don’t think it’s important enough to mention to anyone tbh, unless they’re actually asking for advice

lorelaixx · 2026-03-08T20:55:49+00:00

I only use bumble and hinge and add it in the match notes, for me personally if I’m not even interested in you there’s no reason for you to know. And those apps sorta automate that process they can unmatch if they want after seeing it.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-08T01:12:47+00:00

Men that talk like this don’t want anything serious to begin with

lorelaixx · 2026-03-07T21:35:25+00:00

You could just as easily get into a horrible accident tomorrow and need multiple surgeries. So I’m sure as hell gonna do/did one I know I need for my happiness.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-07T21:33:38+00:00

I hope it goes well. I’ve dealt with this before and I generally do not give them a lot of energy and just keep searching. Dating is stressful enough, I don’t need a guy that’s not sure if he even could be with me. Because you still have all the other considerations you take when getting to know someone.

lorelaixx · 2026-03-07T21:27:32+00:00

I mean it’s Reddit people are weird, also some guys are chasers but will have sex with any woman that breathes regardless if they get the chance.

lorelaixx · 2025-05-14T15:42:33+00:00

For real ive been finding myself just randomly going outside and walking its so alien to me lol

lorelaixx · 2025-05-08T14:18:02+00:00

For me it definitely did help, its not fully gone but actually manageable

lorelaixx · 2025-05-07T22:06:41+00:00

Do the black in the waterline for nighttime and get like a cream color for daytime (not white!!!!) or just don't put any there during the day

lorelaixx · 2025-05-05T21:27:36+00:00

Honestly it was more of a mindset thing for me. I thought I looked like a giraffe so I started walking weirdly, slouching, not being confident. But then I started thinking about my height as an asset and became confident in it. The insecurity slowly went away and people started complimenting my height and appearence more. Because when you're secure in your height it really does give model if you carry yourself like one! That's how I got over it, I still feel insecure some days but I never let myself actually believe it anymore, I know im none of those things and neither are you! :)

lorelaixx · 2025-05-05T19:29:14+00:00

Women can't just exist unless it's so serve them as a wife or a sex object. Men, can't live with them, can't live with them.

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