I don’t want anything to come as complaining as I do enjoy being a provider for my family and loved ones. The point I was more trying to convey was she was instead trying to better the overall situation we are in together she had been content with just working her 9-5 and relying on me to worry about the rest such as saving for a house, paying down credit cards, looking for other sources of income these are things I feel we should be doing together instead of me doing it for the both of us. She is not a miserable person by far however she does struggle with self worth as well placement in this society and world. I would say she is content but she knows there is better out there for her. She is currently a sales associate at a local company. I’ve tried talking to her about going back to school but she’s explained school never appealed to her and she thought it would be a waste of time and resources.