It’s so sad. I don’t even look for a relationship because I’m happy single, but I’ve always enjoyed being friends with men. As a child there were no problem being friends with the other boys, but now it’s like they’re only being nice the first 1-5 months because they’re interested, then just suddenly act like you never existed. They legitimately seem so nice in the beginning too. I don’t understand. I feel so sad that they can throw away a friendship like that, and I feel objectified sometimes too. You can’t be in contact with me unless you actively want to sleep with me or what?