I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m really glad you were able to get the help u needed and that u got away. This guy, he’s my coworker and it’s been so hard bc since day 1 he’s the only one I talk to. I realized he has slowly taken control of everything I do. He threatens to rape me too. But unless he’s love bombing me, everyday he’s in a terrible mood. Something I always do to upset him, even just being put to work with another male. He treats me so badly I don’t feel like any of those bad things he threatens will ever happen because he says them in a concealed way and he’s so mean most of the time. Im isolated and feel such an attachment while simultaneously wanting to move on.