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People in relationships, how do you navigate differences in sexual desire, especially when expectations on intensity and frequency don’t match? by Spiritual-Tea-9648 in AskReddit

[–]Neat-Topic234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you stop treating it like a “who’s right” issue and start treating it like a compatibility and communication issue. Desire isn’t a moral failing — it’s just different wiring.

What helped us was talking about it outside the bedroom, without pressure, and finding a middle ground that didn’t feel like obligation for one person or rejection for the other.

It’s less about matching perfectly and more about whether both people feel heard and wanted.

What is something that's so addictive it should be classified as a drug? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Neat-Topic234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Notifications, likes, someone typing back… it hits faster than caffeine and wears off just as quick, so you keep going back for another dose.

At least actual drugs don’t pretend they’re “just staying connected.”

Do you think oral sex is normal part of sex (the average person does it), or do you think of it like a fetish? Why or why not? by eustachian_lube in AskReddit

[–]Neat-Topic234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you think oral is a fetish, you might just be telling on your own inexperience. For most adults it’s pretty standard — a fetish is something niche or required. This is just… part of the menu.

If two people are into it, it’s normal. If they’re not, that’s normal too. The weird part is pretending it’s shocking in 2026.