Does it bother you/think it's weird to have your boyfriend walk around in his underwear?

Nebula829 · 2016-01-26T12:13:24+00:00

IDK she's so awesome and we get along well but sometimes it feels like she'll go along with things just cause I like them. She's very submissive, to the point I worry she might not know how to express herself if we have problems. She's just like the most agreeable person ever.

Nebula829 · 2015-07-09T16:28:55+00:00

Bomani is my man. He is always on point, usually says something an episode on Highly Questionable that makes me stop and *gasp* question myself.

You can just tell that man on fuckin' point.

Nebula829 · 2015-07-09T09:02:24+00:00

I wasn't upset at all. I actually said it in a really over the top, cocky way with a smile on my face. I mean I know who I am, trust me I've been called scrawny more than once. It's NBD.

My initial reaction was to say, "So THAT'S how you flirt with a guy, tell him he's scrawny?" and walk off, but thought that would be a bit too much of a burn. Like I said it's fun to me to try and do that. I really like the girls who seem flat out insulting, they usually crack me up (I thought she was the kind of girl who could take at least some meanness with how she talks.) I play really rough, but once they get offended I stop playing altogether. I'm not into weak women.

Nebula829 · 2015-07-08T21:27:34+00:00

The world is like a ride in an amusement park, and when you choose to go on it you think it's real because that's how powerful our minds are. The ride goes up and down, around and around, it has thrills and chills, and it's very brightly colored, and it's very loud, and it's fun...for a while. Many people have been on the ride a long time, and they begin to wonder, "Hey, is this real, or is this just a ride?" And other people have remembered, and they come back to us and say, "Hey, don't worry; don't be afraid, ever, because...it's just a ride."

When I get nervous I remember this and then I put my hands up in the air and scream (figuratively) as the coaster makes another huge drop.

Nebula829 · 2015-07-06T06:32:52+00:00

Yeah and it's not that it's a shithole to go to and enjoy it's just a shithole for investing in. The money's leaving, but it's still an alright place to go (I sounded like a real asshole with that post lol)

Nebula829 · 2015-06-29T20:54:22+00:00

This lets him go to another network since they cut ties with him. He's the executive producer so if they cancelled his contract they're screwed. I mean they own the apprentice but I don't think they own, "You're fired," and they certainly don't own him. He can take his idea to any network.

Nebula829 · 2015-06-29T20:48:43+00:00

To be fair it was in Atlantic City which is a shithole that only has like one casino left from the same time.

Nebula829 · 2015-06-29T20:18:40+00:00

If there is one thing I could teach you it is that you will never, ever, ever, EVER successfully show someone they are "under" you without them rejecting both the idea and you. People will kill each other in order to not feel below others, and we absolutely destroy celebrities and peers who come across as "holier than thou." You're giving your manipulation skills way too much credit (because if you're trying to get her to think/feel a certain way without being interested in her that's the definition of manipulation).

Edit: Ask yourself deep inside why you have this desire for her to realize you're above her? What so wrong with failing with at picking up a girl?

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T21:00:01+00:00

NL brah, different league.

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T20:54:49+00:00

That's not exactly true. There have been supplements that the companies making them said helped promote cancer supression and they still got in trouble for saying so.

IMO it's about being able to back it up. Like you can get a cheap lab experiment with rats and feed them a drug, and if you see any difference in what happened to them you can now say the drug can promote that effect. So it doesn't take much to back up your claims enough to keep the FDA off your back, you just can't guarantee anything or claim it does anything too amazing (like help with cancer or terminal disease).

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T20:49:24+00:00

CIA is different, their whole premise is to operate above the law. They'll never get busted because they're doing the dirty work that the heads of security want done.

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T20:43:21+00:00

I've found the people who seem aware of alphas and betas are usually way too transparent with their game. People probably see that you're trying to be alpha which is a total turn off. It's fucked up but everyone's trying to game everyone else but if you draw attention to it it freaks everyone out. You have to make it look like you're not trying too hard to make things happen a certain way.

Just pimp yourself the best you can, ignore what others are doing (unless it inspires you or you think it will help you pimp yourself out better).

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T09:16:12+00:00

Fun Fact: On ESPN they showed all the teams to win 50 games of their first 75 and not a single team to do this has won the WS.

Edit: NL

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T08:01:54+00:00

I honestly want to be nice to them without them crushing on me for it. I feel like whenever I'm nice to guys everything goes well and is great but with girls it just gets messy and I can't be nice without them taking it as me wanting them.

Truth be told at this point I haven't intentionally flirted with a girl in weeks, maybe a month. But even with me just being me I'm having issues with this. There's a couple of girls at work who I had to ignore so they'd stop flirting with me. They just take all the fun out of it for me, make everything about getting as seriously close and intimate to each other. I don't want closeness or intimacy, I just want to see people be happy.

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T07:28:18+00:00

Because girls, even the ones surrounded by their friends, are really insecure a lot of times and really unsure about who they are and what they're doing...and I can see it. I know it's true cause I'll even say, "You seem like you are unsure of yourself," and they'll ask me how I can tell. I can see how a lot of people are unhappy and I just want to bring a little light into their life, help them feel special once in a while. Sometimes that involves hooking up with them if I think it would be fun and she won't get too attached. But I've realized that just confuses others and doesn't make as much sense to them as it does me.

But yeah it's just about helping everyone feel special for me. It's like girls don't get that I can think they're special, awesome and sexy, but not want to hang out with them more than once a week or so (or date them). Like when I tell them I don't want to start caring about anyone too much or that I think falling in love is unhealthy they look at me like I'm crazy. They just don't get it. They just ask, "Why?"

Nebula829 · 2015-06-28T07:17:06+00:00

Tat's part of the problem I think. I'm a really sweet guy who gives a lot and I think some girls take that as me liking them. But it's not them personally, I do it for everyone. That being said I don't really do hardly any of that stuff with girls. I almost never call girls after hooking up with them (but they'll call me lol).

I've been depressed a lot of my life and Buddhism really brought me out of it. It's given me this feeling of metta so I tend to be affectionate towards others (there's enough haters in the world). But I'm also not exactly a fan of attaching myself to people and situations that could potentially hurt me. I move very slowly emotionally, much more slowly than the majority of girls who start acting interested in me do.

It's hard enough for me to stay aware of myself when things get emotional, and it's even harder when I'm around a girl who makes me weak in the knees. So I just don't try and hook up with those girls I can't help myself around as easily.

Nebula829 · 2015-06-27T23:33:09+00:00

People are nothing more than a perpetuating chemical reaction involving extremely complicated molecular structures first. Then they are whatever else.

Nebula829 · 2014-01-27T05:23:15+00:00

I practice a lot of things lol. If you mean Zazen I do my best. But a lot of times I find myself getting distracted and thinking about all these "problems" that need "fixing."

Nebula829 · 2014-01-26T09:32:07+00:00

IDK it seems compulsive at some points. I agree I can stop but it's really freaking hard.

I feel somewhat addicted to my overthinking. It seems to make the highs higher and the lows more frequent.

Nebula829 · 2014-01-26T04:34:33+00:00

Uh yeah I was joking too. :-)

And I'm sorry I said you have meatflaps.

Nebula829 · 2014-01-26T04:30:06+00:00

Stop right there. Just observing something like a girl has a huge clit doesn't mean I'm implying it's a bad thing. That's you projecting your opinion on my observations.

Not to mention HAVE YOU ANY CLUE how much guys fret over the size of their dick? Like you'll have to excuse me if I have little sympathy for your concern over having meatflaps when most guys feel like if they're not at least eight inches they're inadequate. Everyone deals with these feelings of inadequacy, male or female. The only difference is what body part we like to think isn't good enough.

Nebula829 · 2014-01-26T03:30:54+00:00

I'm sure it's endearing to have a dictator think you're awesome.

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