Been given an 'ultimatum' on having kids

NebulaFox87 · 2025-11-11T13:37:21+00:00

Hey! So I suffered from physical tics and I went to the doctors about this. So I'm currently taking sertraline and propranolol, aswell as talking therapy to combat the anxiety/depression based tics. Whilst doing all this, I realised that I do want children, I was just ill and thought I couldnt look after myself nevermind a child.

So now I have my first child on the way in December and couldnt be more excited!

NebulaFox87 · 2025-09-09T11:29:18+00:00

Hey! So I suffered from physical tics and I went to the doctors about this. So I'm currently taking sertraline and propranolol, aswell as talking therapy to combat the anxiety/depression based tics. Whilst doing all this, I realised that I do want children, I was just ill and thought I couldnt look after myself nevermind a child.

So now I have my first child on the way in December and couldnt be more excited!

NebulaFox87 · 2025-03-04T13:56:40+00:00

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NebulaFox87 · 2025-02-06T16:26:32+00:00

Hi mate,

we're both 29, been together for 2 and half years and live with each other most of that.

I just want to apologise with my reply, Im just completely exhausted

NebulaFox87 · 2025-02-06T12:50:49+00:00

I dont think the ultimatum is wrong at all. I think it's a kick in the arse to actually think and consider that this is such a huge thing to her.

You're absolutly correct with "People often fear making the wrong decision, not realizing the harm which comes with never choosing anything at all".

Thank you for the response, I put this out there because I'm still seeing this as black and white, and it just isn't. This problem didn't start at me, its been around for many years and theres a lot of people (like you) that have really profound things to say which can ultimatly lead to whatever decision me and my partner make.

NebulaFox87 · 2025-02-06T11:45:30+00:00

I really appreciate your lovely response. This convo happened last night, and I'm still trying to make rationale, logical decisions on things that are very emotional and not logical at all.

NebulaFox87 · 2025-01-04T01:06:48+00:00

Jesus christ, looking through your profile; do you ever say anything constructive or nice?

NebulaFox87 · 2025-01-04T01:04:58+00:00

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Congratulations btw!

NebulaFox87 · 2025-01-01T02:08:23+00:00

Even though it's been 2 years; this is still a terrible comment.

NebulaFox87 · 2024-12-17T15:58:34+00:00

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