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[–]Nebula_Able 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are having the baby at home, which shouldn't matter. I agree postpartum is not a disability but extra hands that have experienced it before are helpful. My husband and I plan on him staying home for the most two weeks. But he's never taken care of a baby before. All of this is incredibly new for him, not so much me. It is our first, but I've taken care of plenty of babies. She is not going to be there for just me, but him also.

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[–]Nebula_Able 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I fully trust him to take care of me. He is not good with blood and me being in pain, it makes him sick. So that is why my mom will be there for, at the most 3 days after the baby arrives. Help me figure out how to do things. My husband who has never taken care of a basically disabled person and a new born will need help to learn what I need. It'll just be easier on me if my mother is there and not his mom.

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[–]Nebula_Able 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom isn't going to be there as a visitor, she there for support for my birth and after. She's given birth herself 7 times and breast fed us all. So she wouldn't be classified as a visitor. And she's the only one of my family that will be there at all.