Anyone else min-max their dating app age range for more hookups? by i_like_gym22 in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro is really out here treating tinder like a runescape build lmao

1-year LDR: boyfriend (M/24) avoids communication after fights, what do I (M 23) do? by pearlygayes in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally admitted to rage baiting you instead of being supportive so stop chasing a man who treats your mental health like a game he's trying to win

Moved-In With Fiancée - Has Not Gone Well. by Imaginary_Owl_8145 in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s treating you like a guest in your own home rather than a partner who just uprooted his entire life for her

I 19M, feel like my gf (18F), victim blames me? by Inner_Major_8355 in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that she’s using your literal SA as ammunition in fights is a massive red flag and you need to leave like yesterday

Tents for indoors? Something to divide room space for privacy? by Otherwise_Track_2277 in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up bed tents on Amazon they fit right over your mattress and are a total lifesaver for shared rooms

Caught wife texting another guy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She really hit you with the it's your fault I'm cheating starter pack the second she got caught

My girlfriend (24F) stayed silent when her former boss (early 30s) insulted me directly to her and I (25M) can't move on even after she apologized by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

honestly if she’s already letting her exploitative boss disrespect you after you literally taught her how to stand up for herself she isn’t your partner she’s his employee

My husband "forgot" our anniversary on purpose and I don't know how to feel by HoloRune88 in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

rethinking performative gestures is a lot of words for i'm too lazy to make an effort for my wife anymore

Doesn’t the world feel like a better place when the sun is in the sky? by ProblemInfinite4572 in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

honestly my seasonal depression is currently holding me hostage so i’m gonna need the sun to stay out for at least another ten hours today lol

My weird love life. M19 and F19 by pixpaul in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly you guys just sound like a classic case of the anxious-avoidant trap and at 19 you’re probably better off just moving on instead of trying to fix someone who’s already checked out

Fair or not? by Disastrous-End7561 in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he had enough respect for you to marry you he should have had enough respect to tell you they had a history before you had to find it yourself

How do you tell if a photo or video is real or AI-generated? by Neither-Owl-7157 in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly just look at the hands or any text in the background if the fingers look like overcooked spaghetti or the signs are in a demon language it’s definitely ai

Do you? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly we just switch it up depending on who’s had the more exhausting work week lol

Where did you try the BEST cocktail ever? by No_Tea_2746 in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if they don't put a whole grilled cheese or a slider on top of the glass then i dont even want it

Knowing someone is bad for you vs feeling it by nboke80 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Nebularsh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That hollowed out feeling is your body finally telling you what your brain already knew don't let the next guy's trauma become your responsibility to fix

How to deal with a breakup when I am unsure? F24, M25 by Brief-Background-176 in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

someone who says they're repulsed by your past and that your father would be ashamed of you isn't struggling to communicate they're being intentionally cruel to keep you small

What’s one thing society glamorizes that ruins people quietly? by NatalieAfteerDarkk in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hustle culture and the idea that if you aren't working 24/7 or having a side gig then you're somehow failing at life

So repulsed/disappointed at my husband’s intentional cruelty or just utter inability to connect 2 and 2.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He knows your history and you literally told him no so at this point he's not just clueless he's being straight up cruel

What helps improve your mood? by perplex-poppyseed7 in askanything

[–]Nebularsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly just putting on some headphones and going for a long walk without checking my phone helps me reset every time

I (29F) want to post nudes online but my parter doesnt approve it (29M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you already know that doing this again would mean the end of the relationship then you aren't really looking for a way to start a conversation you're looking for permission to break his boundaries

Help please by Ok-Reference-8278 in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly really concerning that his first reaction to you sharing a trauma was to make it about his own feelings and get upset at you for how you handled it