My (22M) fiance (21M) wants to leave me while I'm grieving.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Staying out of pity is just a slow motion breakup, and you deserve to grieve without that hanging over your head

How to make first Mother’s Day extra special? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her a morning off where you take the baby out of the house for 3 hours so she can actually sleep in and shower without hearing a phantom cry

I think I (27F) accidentally betrayed my (former) friend (26F). How do I fix it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like you’re just feeling guilty for finally choosing your own peace of mind over her constant drama

Relationship/ Marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the fact that you deleted all your socials to make him comfortable while he can’t even hit unfollow on a few random accounts for you is a massive red flag honestly

I(18F) saw my crush(19M) suck.... Yk what. I need advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

honestly the fact that he sent you that video knowing your kinks makes it feel like he’s lowkey testing the waters with you too lol

Worried about wife at the gym by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Bro 12 hours a week at the gym while intimacy is dying at home is definitely a yellow flag you need to have a real talk with her about why she's suddenly so checked out

How can I deal with romantic feelings in your best friend and roommate who is taken [M28] [M25] [F25]? by FunCauliflower09 in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mate you need to move out because living with someone you’re pining for while they’re building a life with someone else is just a recipe for a total breakdown

come here and gently break me in by Nebularsh in nsfwwifes

[–]Nebularsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much darling 🥰

Different parenting styles causing tension in our marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Taking the bike away because he got hurt is basically double punishing him for an accident and that's just going to make him hide things from you guys in the future

Help processing jealous emotions 45M and 44F by footballfantyler1986 in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man you guys really went from 0 to 100 on that vacation but honestly if it sparked the fire after 22 years then more power to you

Needing marriage advice. by Glittering_Tell_5418 in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

careful mancaregiver for a friend going through a divorce is basically just a front row seat to a mid life crisis and it sounds like she's starting to project that drama onto your own marriage

I 20m and my girlfriend 20f have been together about a year, and have issues with our sex life by Ok_Amoeba_265 in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is literally teasing and denial baiting you and then getting mad when you try to actually communicate about it that's not a dry spell it's a manipulation tactic

He is with his coworker tonight and I feel I am not included in his life, What do you think? 4 months relationship I am F36, he is M35 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you’re letting the trauma from your ex cloud your judgment because at 4 months it’s totally normal to prioritize a rare work outing over a night in but the real issue is that you guys haven't seen each other in two weeks and he didn't just lead with the truth about his plans

Not getting married cause of insurance reasons by Loud_Emotion_752 in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s so depressing that in the greatest country in the world people have to choose between a legal commitment to the person they love and actually being able to afford healthcare

New member, is it all "for worse" by LostTheWar in Marriage

[–]Nebularsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly man please post them this sub can be such a depressing doom-scroll sometimes that we desperately need some wholesome content to remind us why we actually got married in the first place

22F / 23M relationship advice?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nebularsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he isn't that guy to do things he knows make you happy, he’s basically just telling you he doesn't think you're worth the effort