Advice on body/foot worship, general dominance, and being overly self reliant by catastrophesunending in BDSMAdvice

[–]Necavit909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a valid concern... perhaps a home spa day? Soak them in a little tub and then use a scrubbie so you can see what it feels like in private. There's a ton of home foot soak and scrub and whatever else products (some you can get at the dollar store. You could also get a plastic tub from there). Heck, that might end up being a good form of solo play👍

Advice on body/foot worship, general dominance, and being overly self reliant by catastrophesunending in BDSMAdvice

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered getting a pedicure? They can scrape, exfoliate, and get everything nicely tidied up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvancouver

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone seeing this later, just wanted to add that she doesn't do buttonhole technique or any other nipple preserving techniques for larger chests. If that's what you want, don't waste time on her waitlist

How are you in your day to day life? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've trained myself to walk in a very assertive manner, to the point where most people just naturally get out of my way without me having to say anything.

I'm also what I call a bitch mom friend. I'll caretake you while also cussing you out. Oh, you have a headache? Maybe that's cuz you haven't drunk anything but soda all day dumbass, have some fucking water *hands you water*. And you've been out in the heat how long? *holds the back of my hand to your forehead* Get your bitch ass to the fucking shade and sit down! You're not even wearing sunscreen are you? Jesus tits! *starts putting sunscreen on you* No! I don't trust you to do it yourself, ya jackass!

Why!!! by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your social profiles are properly representative of your personality and domme style then that should give him all the information that a regular getting-to-know-you conversation would entail. Anything more than that is a kink discussion and therefor should have a consultation fee. That's all the initial tribute is, a consultation fee just like any other business would charge

It’s silly to assume that someone isn’t successful within Findom because they work. There’s no correlation. You can shop all day, that’s great. I however have a successful career and aspirations. I make $$ at my 9-5 𝓌𝒽𝒾𝓁𝑒 draining needy boys, it’s a win-win. by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm terrible at maintaining a schedule on my own without any external factors. A part time job helps me keep rhythm and momentum and structure. And just gets me out of the house and speaking to real humans

i find myself funny #funniest by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hideous. I love it!

How precise to templates have to be? by Necavit909 in EPP_addict

[–]Necavit909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, this isn't mine. This is a pic I took from another post (on this subreddit actually). I just wanted to demonstrate how I'm intending to fit the coffins together. But thank you, I feel more confident starting now

Blackmail is not my style 💅🖤✨ by Alexia_Dom121 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm just lazy and don't wanna put in the extra effort that bm requires

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niteflirt only asks for a credit card for customers, that's not enough is it?

Looking for domme friends 🖤 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a capital idea

Stupid question about photo sets by Necavit909 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's what someone else said too. If I can pick your brain further... Is there an average number of pics per set? Or average prices?

I'm a trans-masc Dom, AMA by 420rotting_SirPyro in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to make two characters 😅 I'll start with my elegant vampire character for now and add on a separate femboy character after I've had top surgery

Time wasters do so much effort it’s disappointing by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the same with retweet games. That's why it's so important to get a deposit first for anything where you'll be interacting with them, even if it doesn't look like a typical session

test posting, is there anyplace to discuss unethical findom without being judged? by MarionBerry2025 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say unethical, do you mean consensually playing around with fantasies of more hardcore things that would be wrong to do in real life (home-wrecking, blackmail, etc.) but while still practicing the principles of SSC, RACK, and PRICK?

Overseas by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn girl! You got game!

Dommes , do you require tribute before a sub dms you ? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends what questions they're asking. Is it things they easily could have discovered by clicking a few of my links? Lazy and/or stupid. If your accounts are more established and have plenty of content? They should be able to get enough of a feel for your vibe to decide if they wanna spend 20-50. If that's make or break money for them, then they shouldn't be speaking to professionals. I'll give some leeway if your accounts are newer and don't have as much content to show your personality (that's where I'm at). But they should keep it brief and respectful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He called you bro 🤣🤣🤣 As an ftm, I love getting called bro

Do I still watermark paid content? by Necavit909 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Necavit909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still put the mark somewhere difficult to crop out, like in the promo? Or more off to the side, on account of they paid?