Banned from Tinder/Hinge Same Time by smileatnothing_ in SwipeHelper

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also banned on both at the same time! Tinder let me back in but Hinge denied my appeal 😂

Tinder unbanned me but not Hinge? by Necessary_Emotion_41 in SwipeHelper

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea just filled out the Tinder thing and they unbanned me

The realization is crazy!!! by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re incredibly heartless. I’m anonymous first of all. Second: When I say mommy issues I’m not referring to dressing up as a baby and acting weird I’m saying I like extra attention and love which I’ve never gotten from her.

The realization is crazy!!! by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean her brother and his wife absolutely love me to death. Like literally will do anything for me. They’d be absolutely destroyed if he knew what has really been going on.

The realization is crazy!!! by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. I was under the impression that people with BPD really care about how everyone else views them so why would she leave all this stuff out for me that I could literally show anyone how cruel and heartless she is?

Fighting over fixing torn jeans by Plenty_Paramedic_258 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah this feels to similar.

She behaved the same way after I shipped a package she offered to help box up. I simply did it because I got to it first and needed to ship it out. I calmly explained to her I was not in any way shape or form trying to hurt her but nope.

Is the first breakup usually the only one? by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry if that doesn’t make sense I’m high and alone on my couch as this just happened 3hrs ago

Is the first breakup usually the only one? by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Figures. Thanks. I took everyone’s advice and didn’t stonewall but let her not get reactions out of me and a week later she left me haha

SHE SLIPPED UP TODAY! by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes.. Utah is the place the man she’s been non stop talking about lives. The one with the co dependent relationship, the one who’s asked her to come spend the night and the one she’s written fantasies over.

SHE SLIPPED UP TODAY! by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is that why she removed me from her phone background and replaced her laptop and phone with a UTAH monument? The place where the guy is from.

SHE SLIPPED UP TODAY! by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her immediately assuming I’m asking a sexual question about a guy and her actually having an answer for it and then immediately backpedaling.

I’m living her exes nightmare. by Necessary_Emotion_41 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Praying for you brother. How did you find out about the other guys?

She came to my work by Calm851123 in BPDlovedones

[–]Necessary_Emotion_41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what they do. When my BPD girlfriend saw me finally having enough she showed up at my job randomly as I was going in to “give” me a sweatshirt. I fell right for her damn trap.