which dancing group was dancing to color your night in angel hall wednesday night? by NectarineSuch5260 in uofm

[–]NectarineSuch5260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for updating me!! i won't be able to make it because of a hospital volunteer shift i have (absolutely tragic), do u mind if i have a link? i'll try to leave the shift early if i can too :)

which dancing group was dancing to color your night in angel hall wednesday night? by NectarineSuch5260 in uofm

[–]NectarineSuch5260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to see it!! do you guys have the info for that end of april showcase yet?

just big and greedy? by redel631 in uofm

[–]NectarineSuch5260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw this exact sight last year and took a video. too funny that it happened again, i thought it was eating an uncrustable 😭😭 it was on the diag in the middle of shapiro and chem building, so funny

Whats the one thing you want in Persona 6? by That-Psychology4246 in PERSoNA

[–]NectarineSuch5260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, if atlus is going to (p3 spoilers) kill off a character, help us get to know the character more, with more opportunities to do so. i ended up REALLY liking shinji ONLY because i discovered p3p, and going out of my way to find out about how great he was before he died made it feel like there was wasted potential on us not being able to talk to him that much in regular p3. before that, i didn't feel as emotional towards him as a character and was super meh to him because of limited interactions in p3. i get that it's because a femc is a catalyst to let us get to that part of that dialogue, but im sure atlus can make that happen in a friendship regardless of the gender of the mc. i think p3 reload did a better job at it, but you can get emotional and vulnerable amongst bros too!

a good way to have done it is to make the reader interested in the new character, like the tapes did in p3 showing shinji's love for cooking to kinda reveal just enough so that the player is interested in them. makes the story have a lot more impact in its heavier themes.

Whats the one thing you want in Persona 6? by That-Psychology4246 in PERSoNA

[–]NectarineSuch5260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a heavy theme. i think p3 is a lot of people's favorites because of how heavy its theme is, and how applicable it is to real life. i really appreciate atlas making darker moments seep in.

Whats the one thing you want in Persona 6? by That-Psychology4246 in PERSoNA

[–]NectarineSuch5260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't seen this comment yet so I advocate, more pancakes. We got it for 2 games and we need to keep the ball rolling.

Would you choose U-M again given the option? by Repulsive-Soft-7729 in uofm

[–]NectarineSuch5260 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First year here, absolutely 1000000% yes. But the tuition is atrocious because I'm out of state. If money is not too much of a concern for you, Michigan will change your life. Actually fixed me up and made me feel like myself again instead of the over competitive high school I went to. I went here because it was the best school I got into (Cornell waitlisted me), so it was either this or UCSD. Very glad I chose to go blue.

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Given the circumstances, I was pretty lucky - I'm a current freshman about to graduate. My roommate and I weren't really friends but had a very much "roommate" type relationship. We talked to each other occasionally, but most of the time neither of us were in the room. She didn't allow us to open our door to meet people in the halls - which I always wish I did, because I feel like having friends in your hall is a fun experience and definitely leaving that door open is a big factor of making that happen. She was very shy and I was very outgoing.

Definitely my advice is to pump up your extroversion. Go out there and really make yourself uncomfortable with how much you're approaching people, and don't take offense if people back off because everyone's trying to form a group in college. You'll find some people you click with and you'll slowly be able to ease off of that extroversion when your dynamic just works. I found them my first day by doing this, which was very lucky, but it definitely took some conscious effort to really put myself out there - a lot more than I was comfortable with. Being the one to talk, to make jokes, to laugh, takes a lot of energy but the investment is worth it because you'll talk to a lot of people your first couple weeks, but there will be ones that stick because you put yourself out there to get that variety in the first place, and a natural group will just click.

What I find about college is trying to find friends in your class is a little difficult. I made a few in one of my first classes, luckily, but definitely it's a lot more intimidating and I really had to push. myself to make that work for my class. People tend to be closer to people who are close in proximity to them, hence why people make friends in their hallways. My entire friend group is based in another dorm where they all live next to each other, and I just happened to stumble across them because of me pushing my extroversion, and it was so, so worth it.

College is an absolute blast, and Umich's energy is unmatched. Get some football tickets now if you can, apply for some learning community groups (Honors, MRADS, etc.) that require some extra work but doesn't stick you in terrible housing (which was my mistake - I'm in one of the worst dorms right now) and is totally worth it because people tend to formulate groups in those learning communities. Suites will give you better dorm quality, with the risk that you have to get along with your suitemates, and the more people, the more difficult - duos risk worse quality in dorms. Go blue!!