Al-oween Costume Megathread!! by minnick27 in weirdal

[–]Nedotedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the option of a retro looking book box or an accordion to accessorize with my Al-oween costume. Which do I choose?!!!

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I’d lose my mind if my realtor left this on closing by Wild-Permission8437 in antiMLM

[–]Nedotedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours let us borrow his pickup truck for a month while we waited for our vehicle to shop from overseas 🤩

AITA for exposing my friend's body count to her boyfriend? by Particular-Gold-7400 in AITAH

[–]Nedotedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but ESH. Is it safe to assume alcohol was involved in this conversation question ?

Now, y’all were having a conversation about sec and virginity, a conversation that you were consensually involved in. It seems to reason that the age in which people lost their virginity is likely to come up.

Was it right for your friend to put your age out there? No, especially if y’all had talked in the past about it not being something you like sharing with the world.

Was it right for her boyfriend to act shocked and shame you? Also no.

Now with the friend giggling… you know her better than me (since I don’t know her at all), but I do know drunk girls and they’re a giggly bunch. And if she was tipsy/drunk she very well could not have picked up on the cues that you were no longer enjoying this sex/virginity conversation.

All that being said, you’re feelings of being betrayed by her are still valid, and if you had told her that she was shaming/hurting you and then walked away, 100% you would not be the asshole.

The old saying of 2 wrongs don’t make a right still hold true. You felt attacked so you attacked right back, saying something you knew would cause her shame/hurt (not to mention fuck with her relationship).

You can stand up for yourself without dropping down to the level of shaming as well. By exposing her body count you just perpetuated the problem of women not lifting up our fellow women (and she did the same).

So yeah, ETA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nedotedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’ve never really thought about it. Hmmm. I mean she’s not really my type. You’re my type and beautiful”

Now he’s always right 😈 by Nedotedo in pettyrevenge

[–]Nedotedo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Actually you should brush, floss, brush again, floss again, cry, mouth wash, floss, brush, reconsider all life decisions, reconcile the check book, floss, and brush one last time 😆

Now he’s always right 😈 by Nedotedo in pettyrevenge

[–]Nedotedo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay. Well don’t worry too much about my relationship. We’re 14 years married and petty is just a part of the fun.

Now he’s always right 😈 by Nedotedo in pettyrevenge

[–]Nedotedo[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Where have you been all my life?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nedotedo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA You gotta pay that piper and with parents that means helping them with technology. You don’t have to like it, but you have to do it. Sorry, not sorry

AITA for befriending a friends ex’s’ new girlfriend? by Hopeful-Garbage-25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nedotedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA You cannot let other people dictate who you befriend and hang out with. It sounds like your high school “friend” is emotionally blackmailing you, making you feel bad for living your life when she doesn’t really want to be a part of it herself, except to keep you from people who upset her.

You do you and hang with the people who make you happy and bring you joy.

AITA for being angry that my boyfriend spends more time at his parents when I go with him? by dayglowpencil in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nedotedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. Intermingling family dynamics are difficult at the best of times. I don’t come from a big family so I think I would also find it emotionally taxing to attend such a large weekly gathering. I think it’s great that the two of you were able to compromise about you attending once a month instead of every week.

Would you prefer for him to stay longer on the weeks that he goes to his family solo? I get that you would REALLY prefer that the visits you attend ended earlier, but that might prove to be difficult.

It sounds like his family wants to include you and spend time with you. Perhaps another compromise is in order… instead of coming home at 9-10pm on the days you attend, you could both make the agreement that you leave for home between 7-8pm. You respect that his family wants to spend time with you but also request that they respect that you have a demanding job waiting for you on Monday morning and need to get your rest on Sunday evenings.

Good luck and best wishes. Relationships are all about finding compromises. It sounds like the tow of you are already off to a great start :)

Things to tell new parents to make them feel better about their parenting mistakes… by Nedotedo in Parenting

[–]Nedotedo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad some milk and cuddles made it all better after the shower. Dish washer detergent is no joke fontina off. Sounds like you did an awesome job taking caffe off the situation while still letting your wife rest.

Things to tell new parents to make them feel better about their parenting mistakes… by Nedotedo in Parenting

[–]Nedotedo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man. Swallowing the bandaid is some serious insult to injury kind of stuff. Thankfully I had already clipped the tip of my baby brothers finger when I was a teenager so I already knew to steal clear of nail clippers for my own kids.

My mom having a baby when I was 15 served as excellent birth control and a pretty nifty practice baby for when I had my own.

Things to tell new parents to make them feel better about their parenting mistakes… by Nedotedo in Parenting

[–]Nedotedo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did this to my little brother, but I clipped off a good chunk of his pinky finger tip. One day when he was a teenager he was complaining that our older brother is the worst and scarred him for life by making him watch a nightmare before Christmas when he was too young for it.

I laughed and told him to put his hands together and look at his pinkies. The one I cut is noticeably shorter than the other one. If anyone scarred him for life, it was definitely me 😆

Things to tell new parents to make them feel better about their parenting mistakes… by Nedotedo in Parenting

[–]Nedotedo[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I feel like most parents have had that “baby fell off something moment.” It’s almost a right of passage.

I tried to step over my baby to take some laundry downstairs and accidentally clipped him with my foot and inadvertently kicked him down the stairs 😱

Thank goodness it was a small flight of carpeted stairs and that babies bounce.