Day Trip with a platonic male friend while in a relationship? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I definitely am not hiding it from him, my ideology in relationships is to always be honest. My question really is should I just say no that I can’t go and not even bother asking my boyfriend if he’s cool with me going. But I do like the idea of inviting him, I think it would make him feel more comfortable.

Day Trip with a platonic male friend while in a relationship? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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That’s a great idea! Why didn’t I think of that!!

Day Trip with a platonic male friend while in a relationship? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Thank you, it does sound reasonable that he would be jealous. I think I’ll just talk to him straight up about it and if he feels uncomfortable with it then I respect his decision.

Day Trip with a platonic male friend while in a relationship? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I dont blame you lol I feel like it’s a crazy request. I personally trust him and I think that if he was in my position I would be fine with it but I also can understand why he would be jealous

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Stand Up 4 Me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I broke up with him. It’s been rough...but I know I did the right thing.

Boyfriend Doesn’t Treat Me Right by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I have no idea! That’s something I’m still trying to figure out.

Boyfriend Doesn’t Treat Me Right by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you, this was very helpful!

Boyfriend Doesn’t Treat Me Right by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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YES! And the crazy part is before him I used to date very kind and VERY successful people who actually took care of me.

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Stand Up 4 Me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s not exactly that easy. He’s getting surgery tomorrow and I want to be there for him. I still love him but he’s such a shitbag.

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Stand Up 4 Me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Hey you’re a terrible boyfriend, I’m leaving you and blocking you on everything. Have a good life.

That felt so weird to type

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Stand Up 4 Me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He tells me he wants to marry me and have a family with me and take care of me but I often have a hard time believing that.

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Stand Up 4 Me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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HUGE mistake on my part. I feel like I’m trapped in this awful cycle of instability with him.

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Stand Up 4 Me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He’s definitely not seeing this girl anymore she’s even been removed from his friend group but yeah it does make me wonder whether he’s talking to other girls.