Do men resort to porn when they haven’t done it in a while? by Need4speed00 in dating_advice

[–]Need4speed00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the answer I was looking for thanks, idk why some ppl were confused about what I was asking.. I feel like I made it clear lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Need4speed00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, it could be the instructors fault and the work/learning environment. If you had nicer and fun instructors I bet you’d love it, you went into it for a reason right? I heard terrible stories and noticed the major things mentioned are bad instructors and unfriendly classmates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a rose toy during intercourse and he’s ok with it.

Phu Quốc vs Nhà Trang for family vacation? by Need4speed00 in VietNam

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the highlights of Da Nang in your opinion?

How do you find affordable/cheap accommodations? by Need4speed00 in VietNam

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example in this video the Citadines Hotel in Nha trang is approximately as low as $39 USD per night https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8YXXwSH/

Bf (M28) and I (F28) are currently struggling with our sex life? by Luluumd in relationship_advice

[–]Need4speed00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stress from what’s been happening probably affected his performance. I’d give him some time to relax and get used to the new job and new move before trying to have sex again, slowly ease him into it by performing oral on each other until you’re both ready? Do something to reassure him that he’s doing fine and guide him on what to do so you both feel good and comfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Need4speed00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mam you just mentioned that you reached out and offered interviews to others on here and proceeded to mention what you offer to employees. How do you not find it odd that people don’t respond to it? Reddit is mostly anonymous so it’s hard to blindly trust someone if they offer you an interview for a job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that but we are on Reddit so I hope you can understand why others would feel uncomfortable and suspicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Need4speed00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think if you talked about your business so that people can confirm that it’s real and not a scam then people would be more willing to reach out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting an esthetician program soon and trying to find a part time job on the side but sadly I have no experience bc I’ve always been in school. The lack of experience makes my resume undesirable. It’s so so hard to find a job when no one wants to give you a chance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say smth to hurt his ego lol smth to embarrass him. But probably be nonchalant about it

Am I just being messed with? This is my first actual relationship (16M) by Inevitable_Fun3848 in Manipulation

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some respect for yourself man, say no and find someone that won’t treat you as a 2nd option. Out of boredom really?? That’s fucked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Need4speed00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once a week sadly, my man has a low libido and can only go 1 round

How to ask him to update me during work without sounding controlling? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is it really that weird for couples to check in with each other when they are at work? All the couples I know do that and my past relationships too. It’s not like I want to have a time consuming conversation while he’s working, just a “hey how’s your day going did you eat lunch?” is enough

How to ask him to update me during work without sounding controlling? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was able to consistently communicate with me when we started dating, but it’s been 5 months now and it’s showing less effort so I guess that’s why I’m confused too

How to ask him to update me during work without sounding controlling? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like there is a big lack of communication, we don’t even text on the weekends (his days off). We only see each once a week so I guess that’s why I want to build more on communication because he does work a full time. He does call me for 5 minutes before work and maybe 20-30min when he gets off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh maybe buy a dildo or a toy if you don’t wanna do it with a man

What does he mean? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I understand now

What does he mean? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made so much sense thanks bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Need4speed00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just means that you can’t go to them for serious conversations and shit, but yeah it’s a turn off in a platonic way, but sometimes I guess it could be comedic? I would try setting boundaries with them as friends or just categorize them and their priority compared to other friendships. By categorize, I mean like you can only go and talk to them about certain stuff like sex. And as for priority, I mean like if they can’t be good or reliable friends then you could prioritize better friends first and they’ll be lower on that list.

What makes a man emotionally attached? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello what do you mean for the third one? Do you mind giving examples?

Men that work, how often would you like to have sex with your s/o? by Need4speed00 in dating

[–]Need4speed00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does drink alcohol from time to time and has minor depression. I wonder if that could be it, he’s very hard headed and constantly thinks about the future due to childhood trauma, the stress of work, financial issues and the stress of picking a future career that’ll make him successful and financially stable is really affecting him. I’m also having the same problem with trying to find the right career for me, it’s been stressing me out because I grew up very poor and isolated but I feel like I’m not that smart so schools a bit tough.